You'll get a bunch of different interpretations of this terminology. For us cuckold implies humiliation and denigration of the husband which we are def not into. I think hotwifing is the best term to describe what Mrs NC does akthough we do play with other dynamics too |
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Cuckolding implies a certain amount of attention in the form of ensuring the cuck feels he is serving both his wife/partner and her lover. He is as much a the roleplay scenario as the wife & lover. There is a certain dynamic at play.
Stag / Vixen: Is very much an all equal three way, energetic, trist. All players have an equal and active role.
Hotwifing: is where the hotwife, with the blessing of her spouse or partner is allowed and encouraged to enjoy the pleasures of another guy of her choosing. There is less of a need for the husband/partner to participate but they are not cuckolded.
It's a subltle distinction and my interpretation. Help yourself.
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The difference is individual. Every dynamic is difference and the making of assumptions is a risky gamble.
I spent many years of my ENM life meeting and chatting with cuckold/hotwife couples and no two were ever the same.
I now lean more towards being cuckolded by my partners than playing the role of a Bull but it would be unwise for any guy to try to dominate of humiliate me.....as for any woman wanting to cuckold me, there's an element of flexibility  |
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The joy of both of these dynamics is that they are quite fluid, it's down to the individual bull and couple and what they want/like/ need from it.
As a bull I've found no couples are the same and all have different options and kinks they like, some love to see cum on their wives some like lots of humiliation some just want to watch in silence.
I think being open to discussion with a couple is key to being a good bull, along with many other assets  |
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