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By *aveon OP Man 2 weeks ago
Dartford |
I’ve been thinking this for a while, when I look at and post on forums I think there is more fun up north!
I’m based in the South East - and just find there appears to be less open chat and engagement than the more northern people
As for what I’m calling more north … I’m thinking Midlands onwards and south is more London based
Technically I know that is not correct … but |
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By *elkieWoman 2 weeks ago
Durham |
No, I think you might be onto something. Northeast has an active swing scene, so does Yorkshire, and the northwest is a lot of fun. Brum isn’t dull either.
The way it was explained to me by kink friends is that a few of the local councils, particularly the seaside towns, were extremely strict because they wanted the family friendly image, and so a lot of the alternative subcultures struggled to develop. Industrial towns have never had that pressure in the same way |
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By *aveon OP Man 2 weeks ago
Dartford |
"No, I think you might be onto something. Northeast has an active swing scene, so does Yorkshire, and the northwest is a lot of fun. Brum isn’t dull either.
The way it was explained to me by kink friends is that a few of the local councils, particularly the seaside towns, were extremely strict because they wanted the family friendly image, and so a lot of the alternative subcultures struggled to develop. Industrial towns have never had that pressure in the same way "
This actually makes sense ….. less hang ups
And when I’ve been staying more north I find much more engaging chat and meets
So I just don’t think it is me - I should move !
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By *adeiteWoman 2 weeks ago
Stafford |
Having lived in the south east for the last 4 years and now being midlands, there's absolutely more fun up north. More clubs too. There's 3 in decent distance and more of I fancy a bit of a drive, like townhouse across the Wirral. Or xtasia in west brom.
South is very much lacking and severely spread out |
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By *TWboyMan 2 weeks ago
Norwich |
"No, I think you might be onto something. Northeast has an active swing scene, so does Yorkshire, and the northwest is a lot of fun. Brum isn’t dull either.
The way it was explained to me by kink friends is that a few of the local councils, particularly the seaside towns, were extremely strict because they wanted the family friendly image, and so a lot of the alternative subcultures struggled to develop. Industrial towns have never had that pressure in the same way "
Most definitely true. |
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By *TWboyMan 2 weeks ago
Norwich |
"No I don’t think so. There seems to be something about Peterborough in my experience. Come across more from there than would expect "
I agree with you- I’ve met two couples there in the past and there is a range of ages involved in the scene it seems.
I think it’s quite central so people will travel to get there. It’s easy to get to from Lincoln, Leicester, Milton Keynes, Bedford, Cambridge and Kings Lynn. That’s an active catchment area…… and trains pass though North and Southbound plus the A1 and A47 are right there……
I must admit though I’m not an admirer of the town itself…….. |
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By *TWboyMan 2 weeks ago
Norwich |
"Definitely Peterborough for me. No idea why. Southend has been catching up "
Never managed to meet anyone from Southend -.even though it looked a very active scene. Actually that has been true for me about most of the Essex scene……… don’t know why, maybe people think I won’t travel - dunno ! 🙃 |
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By *TWboyMan 2 weeks ago
Norwich |
"The Thames Valley area definitely seems less fun than up north! "
I quite often work in Thames Valley area and I have found this to be the case.
There is some fun if you go out as far as Swindon but even then not as much as you’d expect….. |
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By *aveon OP Man 2 weeks ago
Dartford |
The other thing is look at this thread, more people from the north than south chatting and those from the south agreeing ….
Here I was hoping to start a revolution and be inundated with offers from the south proving me wrong 🤣
Except I’ve had more private chat from those up north !
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"Like to think the South West is pretty lively but there’s a quality vs quantity thing going on down here too. Not that the quality in the “North” is at all poor from what I’ve seen on here!
R xx"
So Kingsbridge is lively, but Ilfracombe is not? Explain pls!! |
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"Definitely Peterborough for me. No idea why. Southend has been catching up
Never managed to meet anyone from Southend -.even though it looked a very active scene. Actually that has been true for me about most of the Essex scene……… don’t know why, maybe people think I won’t travel - dunno ! 🙃"
Esssex is hot spot for sue and I should know lol |
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By *oxy jWoman 2 weeks ago
somerset |
the swinging scene in the southwest is alive and well we've been on it 30+++ years and never had problem looking for fun there was no internet for all back then dogging was big as well as private parties and where most swingers were no clubs down here one opened up in the west midlands that we would travel to ...
so i dont get this north / south divide when it comes to swinginghowever i do get the london / rest of uk divide ..
we are regular players always have at least a couple times a week |
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Cheshire area has given me a lot of nice memories, but nothing down south. I have family down south, so I tend to avoid, and I have better flight connections to Manchester. So I think it's more about choosing than any North/South divide. |
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As someone who works all over the UK (have done for years), and who has visited clubs while away (and wekwnds) as well as arranging meets. These is no difference between North and South. Its the same with the misconception about the North being friendlier, its not something I have experienced, and I spent a lot of time in London |
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Supporting my theory !
Now I know why I get a fair bit of interest from up north and not much from down souf ! 