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Messages that just say "hi"; successful?
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I'm genuinely intrigued. Get loads of these (hi, hey, xxx etc) but has anyone successfully instigated a conversation from one?
Will anyone give an insight into the ratio of how many they send to reply???? |
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"We get
Hey guys
How's you
Hi and my favourite
What you doing
All ignored ttfn"
Similar messages and a similar ignore/delete position. However, got me thinking. Those that send must have some success or they’d change tack surely??? Someone must be responding to them unless they have the skin of a rhino and just do the same thing over and over without a positive outcome.  |
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I often get messages from single blokes that are usually one word or state they are in my village or beg for some sexual favour or other in three or fewer words. The amount of men asking me to kik them amuses me too. Single men just do not read my profile, or think that I will make an exception in his case. That stated, I have had a great exchange of messages with one guy that simply messaged hello and if his female friend does decide to meet me, a three way threesome could be on the cards. So it might work on a fifty fails to one work ratio. |
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"We completely ignore these and I can’t believe we’re alone in that!
You’re not alone. We completely ignore them too. Don’t even bother to open them or check out the profiles. "
Same! It takes a bit more imagination to get us going. |
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"We get
Hey guys
How's you
Hi and my favourite
What you doing
All ignored ttfn
Similar messages and a similar ignore/delete position. However, got me thinking. Those that send must have some success or they’d change tack surely??? Someone must be responding to them unless they have the skin of a rhino and just do the same thing over and over without a positive outcome. "
They probably just copy n paste the same messages night after night.
I ignore them. |
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I never just say hi, it's normally a polite hello, say a little about myself, ask a question or two and finish by saying I'm happy to chat sometime then send a face pic and yet I seldom even get a no thanks, not interested, most don't even reply.
Maybe I should try the "hi, fancy a fuck" routine 
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"That stated, I have had a great exchange of messages with one guy that simply messaged hello and if his female friend does decide to meet me, a three way threesome could be on the cards. So it might work on a fifty fails to one work ratio."
I would wager my left testicle that you will never get to meet his female friend and you are more likely to get a threesome with Charles and Camilla |
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Whilst ‘hi’ isn’t get anyone anywhere, it is hard to come up with interesting conversation starters if their profile has one line of something like ‘woman looking to meet single men/couples’, which happens a lot! |
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To be honest I've been on here for a few years and sent hundreds maybe into a thousand messages over that time , had a few replies and a few meetings which were amazing. But for us guys especially more mature, it can be disheartening at times putting in the effort only to be deleted or not read.
I know lots of guys copy and paste. But I do type every message. But it is what it is and par for the course. |
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My messages are split between: ‘hi” “You okay?” and “Nice cock.” - all deleted. WTF am I meant to do with those..? Lol
Or:
“Straight guys who don’t meet men…” asking me to fuck them, or suck me off. Again, deleted.
However, Messages from peeps who have read the profile & can, at least, produce a sentence - these are serious Fabbers who get a reply.  |
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By *AM2214Man 12 weeks ago
Manchester Area |
"Ah when we were brand new a few months ago we gave them a shot but pretty quickly we realized those who put thought into there message and read our profile were who we were looking for. "
Your profile is pretty clear so I can only presume anyone not reading it before sending a 'Hi' type message is hardly likely to be of interest in physical terms either. Good luck to you both |
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