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When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x |
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"When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x"
Some great suggestions on this thread. For us this was the trickiest part of our first few meets, something we didn’t expect and nobody had spoken about. Thank you for posting and asking, think many people will benefit.
We’ve used:
Shall we move things upstairs?
Are you keen to play tonight?
Shall we move this beyond a social meet tonight?
Phrases that say we’d like to move things on but giving a way for others to politely decline if it doesn’t feel right at that time.
Mrs SW |
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"When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x
Some great suggestions on this thread. For us this was the trickiest part of our first few meets, something we didn’t expect and nobody had spoken about. Thank you for posting and asking, think many people will benefit.
We’ve used:
Shall we move things upstairs?
Are you keen to play tonight?
Shall we move this beyond a social meet tonight?
Phrases that say we’d like to move things on but giving a way for others to politely decline if it doesn’t feel right at that time.
Mrs SW"
Hang on Mrs SW we have also used.
“Are we getting naked!”
And it works 😉 |
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I probably wouldn't suggest going away and coming back naked unless you were absolutely sure they were feeling the same. Would be a bit more than awkward if they weren't feeling up to doing anything that night |
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We met up with a couple in Rhodes last year but we were lucky because they were members here. It meant we could have a flirty text session before the meet.
We all knew what was going to happen so it was simply a case of shall we go back to the hotel after we were all happy. C |
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By *T2022Man 2 days ago
Manchester |
"When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x"
A touch of the leg and a touch in. return from the guy .
if you do kissing a snog / if not maybe then lady feels up leg .touch dick , which give guy invite to grab boob.
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When our gorgeous friends broke the ice with us on our first ever meet, the F put it perfectly in a lull in conversation with 'Can I just put it out there, I'd love to kiss you. Is that ok?'
Just right - gave us the choice and we never looked back x |
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"When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x"
im sure with you wearing the sexy lingerie and legs on show be hard for any man or woman to want play x
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You invite them upstairs to show them your collection of fine scents and colognes that take pride of place on the bedroom dresser.
You suggest that they try a scent, perhaps behind the ear lobe or along the neckline, making them feel relaxed and decadent.
You polite ask to smell the fragrance, inhaling the scent, moving from the ear to the cheek, given them an improvised kiss before seductive kissing their lips with a gentle persuasion. Once you've broken the ice...things will take their natural course. |
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By *TWboyMan 3 hours ago
Norwich |
"When ever we meet someone new we usually invite them to ours. The chatting and proverbial coffee starts and then the nervous chit chat. but how do you get the fun started? How do you make the first move? Any suggestions would be gratefully received x
Some great suggestions on this thread. For us this was the trickiest part of our first few meets, something we didn’t expect and nobody had spoken about. Thank you for posting and asking, think many people will benefit.
We’ve used:
Shall we move things upstairs?
Are you keen to play tonight?
Shall we move this beyond a social meet tonight?
Phrases that say we’d like to move things on but giving a way for others to politely decline if it doesn’t feel right at that time.
Mrs SW"
I’ve had all of these. It’s a perfect way to move things on in a polite way….. |
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By *TWboyMan 3 hours ago
Norwich |
"We only use hotels and invite guys to join us so the wife opens the room door dressed to impress and that sort of breaks the ice shall we say.
Not fir everyone obviously but works for us "
I have had this approach used on me and it works perfectly-usually followed by a session of intense kissing….. and off we go…. |
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By *TWboyMan 3 hours ago
Norwich |
"When our gorgeous friends broke the ice with us on our first ever meet, the F put it perfectly in a lull in conversation with 'Can I just put it out there, I'd love to kiss you. Is that ok?'
Just right - gave us the choice and we never looked back x"
Absolutely the best way…….. works well for me. |
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I have been swinging for many years and can still be nervous with new people on who starts. I actually find it horny sometimes not knowing who is going to start. The anticipation is what does it. My only advice is try and relax and chat nicely. |
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