How did you find going from swinging to then becoming a parent? The hardest part is it’s a lot harder for us to arrange meets these days. It was difficult meeting people before and now it’s even harder. I know in the future it will be easier but wondered if anyone had similar experience. |
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Hey you two, gosh where to start! Time has always been tricky for us, but now it’s near impossible. We’ve also found that the impetus is waning - a lot of the time it just seems like a big faff, and we’re actually quite content to be at home. Occasionally we get the urge to go out without the whirlwind of chaos, but not as much as we thought we would. Everything else just seems bigger and more important and a better use of our time… I think having a child has radically altered our perspectives - especially as older parents. Life is rather cosy, and we’re quite content ☺️ |
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We’ve gone the other way round. We’ve been together over 10 years but had a baby in 2021. In January 2023, I started sharing with the Mrs about my fantasies and we came on here.
We don’t have any family close by so we very rarely get any time off together.
Last year we went to Amsterdam together and visited a club. This year (Mrs is away at the moment and gets back tomorrow) Mrs had her first hotwife experience whilst on holiday so likely going to be doing more together when we can.
You’ve just got to fit it around rare nights off. |
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