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By *oxy j OP Woman 14 weeks ago
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question for couples and women who only meet guys please couples and women only
how hard or easy is it for you to find someone that fits what your looking for ..is it easy because there are so many or is it hard no matter what..
i ask because guys seem to think its as easy as just logging on and away we go so is it that easy to find ???
my answer is no its not easy because sexual attraction (not the only thing by far) is generally hard to find despite the numbers..
not a guy bashing post just a how hard or easy is it for you.. |
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We don't solely meet guys so I hope you don't mind our input.
We find as a couple who meets couples, single guys and women that the right single guy is the most illusive unicorn for us on here (far more than the right single lady). Despite the ratios the right guy is the hardest to find. And knowing the ratios it's frustrating when so many guys come at us but they're just not the right guys. Which is not a negative reflection at who they are as people, just not right for us (although there are some terible, tone death and disrespectful messages and profiles out there).
We find the best way to find guys is to pick them up in clubs or even down the pub. It's far better when you can just meet a guy in person first to check them out and see if the chemistry is there.
Also I think with straight male couples guys tend to forget that the platonic chemistry with the male half is also very important. And that's massively important to me. So we both have to like you. First because it's goings to work a lot better if both guys are at ease with each other and the 3 way team work is spot on. Second I'm not going to let a guy near Mrs Misfit if I think he's a dick.
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Yes there are plenty of guys, but those that make no effort “let’s fuck” or no effort type message or address just the woman, rule themselves out.
We’ve met some lovely guys, and yes you need to be sexually attracted, but personality and communication is very important.
Just be prepared for the admin. |
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"Yes there are plenty of guys, but those that make no effort “let’s fuck” or no effort type message or address just the woman, rule themselves out.
We’ve met some lovely guys, and yes you need to be sexually attracted, but personality and communication is very important.
Just be prepared for the admin. "
We don’t solely meet guys either but feel the same as the posters above. Some of the messages we receive from single guys are not considered before sending which does them no favours. Some clearly haven't read the profile! However, this helps us to eliminate some profiles immediately, allowing us to chat to those who may be for us. Good manners, open ended questions and conversations are sexy! Mrs SW |
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On his profile, when I'm meeting, I only meet single men.
It's not easy, I have to like their face & hit it off with someone before I'd consider a meet.
Then I like a social meet first, in the past, I found a few men used to go quiet at the mention of a social meet. Or they'd cancel if they got a meet that offered fun straight away.
So its not as easy as some think it is. |
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