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How do you get a playmate into your hotel room?
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How do people go about this?
As it seems to be a popular choice let's use travelodge as an example...
If we were to find a partner for the missus we wouldn't exactly feel comfortable walking up to the check in desk together (I know some won't care).
Do you just book a room that sleeps 3? And show up a little while apart?
Do you book two seperate rooms then just meet in one?
Do you book a room for two and it's easy enough in some hotels for the other person just to walk straight in without being questioned by reception?
Or does anyone just prefer to book like an air bnb which removes the awkwardness of getting past reception anyway? |
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For hotel meets, yes generally one of us, or both (when I'm part of a couple playing) will go do and meet the person(s) in reception, then bring them back to the room.
Believe me the reception staff really don't care, and have seen it all before. Might be different if you are bringing in a huge gang of people
HTH have fun! |
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If I've met a couple, I just wander on up - sometimes thwarted by a key card door lol so will need someone to come down.
If solo, I usually arrive first, then will meet the lady in the carpark or past reception and walk her up  |
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I get guys to come and meet me and take me to there rooms, it’s getting harder to just walk in and go too rooms, you need key cards for lifts and doors in most hotels, plus I get funny looks off staff when I show up in tiny cut offs looking really slutty 😂 |
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By *ing00Man 8 weeks ago
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chloroform gets frowned on these days. dashed unsporting, i say.
mind you - i find "joop" cologne just as effective  think that would render an elephant unconcious.. but then how to get it into the hotel room... hm... |
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Now I'm thinking every time we've shared a room with one of my friends (to save money) after a gig, they probably thought we were swinging then, so wouldn't make a difference if we arranged a hotel meet 🤣 |
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my take on it is book a room for 2 , as long as your guest dosent sleep there, your inviting them in for a coffee , give birthday present , sign paperwork on a car theyve just purchased off you , could be related and your out for dinner , etc etc
i always book a hotel with a bar , its easier to meet in the bar , then all 3 go to the room.. |
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Meet them in the car park and walk up together, no one bats an eyelid. We walked up past a busy hotel bar with a couple and found out later the Lady had carried a Bondara double dildo in the box not even in a bag, many laughs were had (best put it in a bag though!)  |
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"How do people go about this?
As it seems to be a popular choice let's use travelodge as an example...
If we were to find a partner for the missus we wouldn't exactly feel comfortable walking up to the check in desk together (I know some won't care).
Do you just book a room that sleeps 3? And show up a little while apart?
Do you book two seperate rooms then just meet in one?
Do you book a room for two and it's easy enough in some hotels for the other person just to walk straight in without being questioned by reception?
Or does anyone just prefer to book like an air bnb which removes the awkwardness of getting past reception anyway?"
Ive met a few couples in Hotels. Usually the Male meets me in Bar even for a drink he then has choice wether to invite me up or not. I also have that choice having met him. I would nerver go to a room number on my own. |
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OK hotel selection is important because certain hotels (or in some cases certain times at a weekend) don't work well. But most Hotels don't bat an eyelid. And many hotels are chilled and not bothered what you do in a room as long as it's not damaged when you leave and you've not caused others to complain.
But as well as hotel room selection is important. What will you be doing? How much room will you need? Will your guest/s be sleeping over. Most times of a 3/4some visit a double will be fine. For a bigger group or a sleep over a family room, a room with one of them huge beds (ideal for a 3some sleep over) or some posher hotels have twin rooms where both beds are doubles. Just be careful with booking a family for twin occupancy (rather than for 3 or more) because some hotels put you in a double anyway. And of course if you are all staying over but may like your own space come bedtime both book seperate rooms.
As for hotels big is often best and ideally with no key card entry to lifts/corridors. Big hotels tend to not bat an eyelid. We've stay in plenty of hotels where you could happily give someone a room number and they'd be able to arrive and come up to you unchallenged. Likewise in most big hotels you could happily have a drink all to together in the bar, flirt, snog and leave together for the rooms with no bother. Maybe not so much in a small hotel in a quiet village. The one thing to watch out for is city centre hotels in party towns at a weekend. Sometimes after a certain time they put security staff on the doors who have the list of names and who's in what room. If their name is not down they're not coming in. |
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