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By *adeite OP Woman 10 weeks ago
Stafford |
So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package? |
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By *apybarasCouple 10 weeks ago
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I'd probably put oral or masturbation in the "sex bucket". It's still a fair bit more than meeting someone for a drink.
That being said I think both myself and Ms C. would enjoy a flirty/dirty talk meeting. A mucky social if you like!
It's not something easily achievable in normal life. |
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo. |
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By *adeite OP Woman 10 weeks ago
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"I'd probably put oral or masturbation in the "sex bucket". It's still a fair bit more than meeting someone for a drink.
That being said I think both myself and Ms C. would enjoy a flirty/dirty talk meeting. A mucky social if you like!
It's not something easily achievable in normal life."
Personally the idea of this is very hot to me. And that's not to say there won't be more meets with them where things go further. |
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By *adeite OP Woman 10 weeks ago
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?
Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo. "
I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet. |
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
Always, you never know how you feel in the moment until it happens. I'm sure some people see success as filling your holes and that's fine for them. But I'd also imagine lots of folks get together and just let things happen if people feel like it or if they just want a drink and flirt in that moment... That's fine too |
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Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo.
I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet. "
Never had a play session without a separate social first. For me the flirting, seduction, teasing is a massive part of me deciding if I want to take it further. You need to convince, cajole and talk me out of my clothes. And then i’ll respond accordingly  |
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The vast majority of meets I've had over 8 years haven't involved sex. Less than 10 percent have progressed beyond a coffee and that's by choice not circumstance.
I've gone to lots of social meets knowing beforehand that there was zero sexual attraction but from our conversations I knew we would get on well as friends and it hasn't hindered me at all.
It's one of the reasons I don't share face pics or feel the need to because physical attraction is irrelevant when I've already decided we won't be taking it further. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo.
I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet.
Never had a play session without a separate social first. For me the flirting, seduction, teasing is a massive part of me deciding if I want to take it further. You need to convince, cajole and talk me out of my clothes. And then i’ll respond accordingly "
Totally agree, the anticipation is so important and first meet full sex doesn’t sit quite right. But some heavy foreplay and the control to stop is a turn on |
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
What you write isn't exactly sex but what you propose is genrally sexually gratifying as well as gratification on a personal level.
For us we've had many hot moments that haven't involved full on sex yet been very hot. Be that the art of flirting, phone sex, kissing, mutually getting off/mutual showing off, oral/soft swing as well as full on sex.
What's important is how it excites you and how it feels rather than the technically of the physical act. Personally we just seek hot encounters and fun. The means of expression don't matter so much. If it's hot, it's hot. And that hotness comes more from the mutual chemistry and the engagement of the mind than it does from the level of physical interaction or act of penetration.
Or the quick version is: no we don't need sex as an end goal to enjoy being with someone. |
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Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
I actually prefer this kind of meet personally |
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Erm the end goal of anyone i meet is sex. That's the intention. Doesn't mean we'll have sex on the initial social. I'm not here to just make friends. I'd be on a different site if I didn't want sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
we have played this way for a while now |
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
For us this would be idyllic. This type of meet can often be overlooked however we are very much open to this and have only ever met with one regular couple where we have just socialised and enjoyed soft fun other times. If anyone is interested in this arrangement with us feel free to dim us. x |
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By *ouMeandThemCouple 10 weeks ago
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"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.
Either meeting socially with flirting etc
Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.
Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?
Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"
This is exactly what we seek. For us the connection is very important... Much more so than the sex initially and we find that the sex between friends is so much more fulfilling.
If anyone feels the same then please get in touch. X |
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Hey there, playful ladies or couples! Who is looking for some fun and flirty adventures? How about getting together for some light-hearted mischief and just enjoying some oral foreplay sounds a lot of fun? Wouldn't it be exciting to explore mutual pleasure and make each other feel amazing? |
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