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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons
1: they don't fancy you
2: they fancy you but you might be too close to home
3: they fancy you but you're too far from home
4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut
5: they're taking a break
6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you
7: you're too needy
8: you're too forceful
9: they find you creepy
10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message
11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair
12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob
13. They just feel like it
Most importantly it's not personal because you don't know them so move along and try again. |
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14: You replied with a polite rejection message and 2 weeks later they send another message (exactly the same txt) or wink.
15: They send a message that so obviously shows that they haven't read your profile.
I always block under those circumstances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"14: You replied with a polite rejection message and 2 weeks later they send another message (exactly the same txt) or wink.
15: They send a message that so obviously shows that they haven't read your profile.
I always block under those circumstances"
I've had no. 15 endless amount of times today. Doing my head in! Lol |
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons
1: they don't fancy you
4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut
6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you
7: you're too needy
8: you're too forceful
9: they find you creepy
10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message
11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair
12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob
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These are usually the reasons i block. Numbers 11 and 12 especially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by someone I've had no contact with lol!
I checked and I've never sent a message, there must be a group if anticipatory blockers out there in action!"
me too , lol just from a forum post .  |
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"13 who gives a shite either way if blocked you are blocked   "
ditto..
like what total strangers (in far away places where there is no attraction or interest and with whom you will never meet) actually think..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You forgot the IPhone finger slip! We have accidently blocked someone it's easy on the mobile site if you have large hands like mine. One small slip of a finger can end it all. |
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I've blocked couples and single ladies before where there is no possibility of me matching their profile requirements. IE As I am a white, 6'5" man if someones profile says they only meet BBC or don't want to meet someone over 6 foot tall for example, I'll block as it saves them coming up in searches just to read that they won't meet me as I'll never be able to change thos physical attributes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been blocked due to not accepting another couples friend request even though they had only messaged once and we clearly say we don't accept random friend requests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal.
Not really, they don't know you so how can if be?"
Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary.
6: Stalker-like behaviour
7: Needy
8: Forceful
9: Creepy
10: Prone to whine
11: see 10
12: 'Realise you're a knob'
All character judgements, no?
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OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal.
Not really, they don't know you so how can if be?
Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary.
6: Stalker-like behaviour
7: Needy
8: Forceful
9: Creepy
10: Prone to whine
11: see 10
12: 'Realise you're a knob'
All character judgements, no?
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Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered.
“Power said to the world,
"You are mine."
The world kept it prisoner on her throne.
Love said to the world, "I am thine."
The world gave it the freedom of her house.”
- Rabindragath Tagore.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered.
“Power said to the world,
"You are mine."
The world kept it prisoner on her throne.
Love said to the world, "I am thine."
The world gave it the freedom of her house.”
- Rabindragath Tagore.
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Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal.
Not really, they don't know you so how can if be?
Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary.
6: Stalker-like behaviour
7: Needy
8: Forceful
9: Creepy
10: Prone to whine
11: see 10
12: 'Realise you're a knob'
All character judgements, no?
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Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories? Seriously, it's a website, some people need to grow up and or grow a pair and stop moaning about somebody who you've never met has not allowed you to see their profile on a swingers site. The reality is that it doesn't matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories? "
Yeah mate. Tears. Lots of 'em. Day after day after agonising day. 
Alternatively, I may have only been pointing out the self-contradictory nature of the original post.
Whichever suits, really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories?
Yeah mate. Tears. Lots of 'em. Day after day after agonising day.
Alternatively, I may have only been pointing out the self-contradictory nature of the original post.
Whichever suits, really. "
I disagree that it's contradicts itself. By it's very nature a personal comment or attack must be personal, and if the
Parties don't know each other then it's not personal,as in don't take it personally. If you (used in third person rather than first person here) wish to take it so then feel free to get upset. For example you've chosen to take my response personally when it's intention wasn't personal, but at the end of the day whether I think you're crying "day after agonising day" or not is irrelevant as we don't know each other.
The list by the way was meant to be tongue in cheek but it appears it may have touched a nerve.
Xx mate |
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Funniest ones are ... you get a message from someone saying "Oh hey, would be cool to chat or meet" ... and you go to look at their profile and it says "This user has blocked you" ... uhh .... what?! :D |
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Usually get blocked by men ( who write to me when my profile clearly states I am straight) and couples who do so after I say they aren't what I am looking for. Either way, it makes no difference cos I am not interested anyway and they actually doing me a favour by blocking me so I dont waste valuable time reading such couples' profiles.
Doesn't bother me at all. You have to be bloody sensitive to be upset over something so trivial. |
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By *owlmMan
over a year ago
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just been bunnyboiled by a bloke who said all the right things (everything that i wanted that i specified on my profile). then he bloked me. so i reported him to admin for being a bunnyboiler. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered.
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Why is somebody a prima donna for using the block button? 
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered.
Why is somebody a prima donna for using the block button?
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17. You were annoying or disrespectful of myself or others in the chatrooms. A recent example of this was the Thatcher funeral and some of the comments made, myself and others had a blocking spree.
18. Your profile shows body parts or activities I find repulsive. I do not want to stumble across them again, or meet
19. You have verifications clearly describing bareback activities. I know that in the future you may realise and hide these, so I block while I can.
20. We have met at least once, but then you have messed me about - thought of as a sure thing that can wait on the backburner maybe? Wrong! Red card rules still apply. 2 fails = block.
21. You have met somebody who I know (on or off this site) and I am uncomfortable meeting you myself, saves wasted messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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18. Your profile shows body parts or activities I find repulsive. I do not want to stumble across them again, or meet
19. You have verifications clearly describing bareback activities. I know that in the future you may realise and hide these, so I block while I can.
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20. Your a guy who enjoys same sex activity but doesn't see himself as Bi as he "hates labels" therefore lists himself as Straight. 
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or u get blocked , after they wink ... Which I don't take notice of ... They send friend request , which I delete ... 1 hour later they friend request AGAIN !
Still not the manners to say ... I then message to say sorry your not our type ! But happy swinging ! ..... They block us , no reply ! Pathetic !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"14: You replied with a polite rejection message and 2 weeks later they send another message (exactly the same txt) or wink.
15: They send a message that so obviously shows that they haven't read your profile.
I always block under those circumstances"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No 3 in fact he showed off quite a lot when I told him he was too far, got rather desperate
You have missed:-
14 They fancy you but you don't fancy them
He showed off too, backtracked on the "can't wait to play with you" rubbish |
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons
1: they don't fancy you
2: they fancy you but you might be too close to home
3: they fancy you but you're too far from home
4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut
5: they're taking a break
6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you
7: you're too needy
8: you're too forceful
9: they find you creepy
10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message
11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair
12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob
13. They just feel like it
Most importantly it's not personal because you don't know them so move along and try again. "
I was just about to write you and email , then read this . I shit myself and decided not to ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...."
then i suspect it falls under a catergory such as not fancying you
i think you need to read all this thread a little more carefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons
1: they don't fancy you
2: they fancy you but you might be too close to home
3: they fancy you but you're too far from home
4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut
5: they're taking a break
6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you
7: you're too needy
8: you're too forceful
9: they find you creepy
10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message
11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair
12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob
13. They just feel like it
Most importantly it's not personal because you don't know them so move along and try again. "
6,8,9 pretty much sums up the ones we have blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...."
Why? I block profiles that I've no interest in all the time.
Saves them spending literally seconds creating a bland one line message that I'd in all likelihood delete anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...."
Perhaps they have a life that's why they don't want to waste it in corespondence when blocking is quicker and easier? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Threads long and I didn't read it all but how about being blocked as they bug you on the forums, always saying the same things; no matter what the thread is actually about 
and before I offend anyone unintentionally I do not mean the OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Threads long and I didn't read it all but how about being blocked as they bug you on the forums, always saying the same things; no matter what the thread is actually about
and before I offend anyone unintentionally I do not mean the OP "
None taken
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang.
You see that's a positive in my book! Saves you catching
Something "
I was not going to catch anything by replying no thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang.
You see that's a positive in my book! Saves you catching
Something
I was not going to catch anything by replying no thank you "
Hey some of those new diseases are pretty virulent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had to do a search so that I could block some of the people who made comments on this thread...because I could/can and would not want them in my life!!
Abbie"
You should try pre-emptive blocking! Find people you think you might not like and then block them in advance |
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang.
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Strangely, I've just blocked 17 guys who HAVE attended a bareback gangbang, including one who was on our hotlist. Oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After sending a msg without using the "magic" subject word, we apologised ASAP, we were then blocked, only for them to unblock and perv on our profile a few more times...Nice |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"After sending a msg without using the "magic" subject word, we apologised ASAP, we were then blocked, only for them to unblock and perv on our profile a few more times...Nice "
Block them back then they can't do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After sending a msg without using the "magic" subject word, we apologised ASAP, we were then blocked, only for them to unblock and perv on our profile a few more times...Nice
Block them back then they can't do that. "
Very good idea tbf.
We normally do that with people who send random requests so they can't send another one. We found it amusing and let them perv away. Next time we won't be so kind |
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I have been blocked several times for pointing out to guys that their pics were quite obviously fakes and when they denied showed them where tineye found them for me in various stock photo websites...LOL just made me giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...."
my profile says i will block if you wink or send friend request maybe that was the case.
personally i dont care if people block me its their choice.
i love my block button can be very useful at times lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I think is really weird is that when I go onto the chat line to look at people camming some guys will instantly block me. As If I could give a toss about them.
Maybe in their little minds it's a way of "empowering" themselves by blocking me out.Or maybe they have issues with their sexuality ? LOL.
The majority of guys will message me when they know I've been looking at them on their cam and we can have quite a laugh. But these other guys who instantly block you - just weird.
Anyway rant over.
Play safe horny peeps.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I think is really weird is that when I go onto the chat line to look at people camming some guys will instantly block me. As If I could give a toss about them.
Maybe in their little minds it's a way of "empowering" themselves by blocking me out.Or maybe they have issues with their sexuality ? LOL.
The majority of guys will message me when they know I've been looking at them on their cam and we can have quite a laugh. But these other guys who instantly block you - just weird.
Anyway rant over.
Play safe horny peeps.
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Glad to be blocked sometimes!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter?
The blocks are there for a reason, so people can use them...if it bothers people they have been blocked then maybe they are not as grown up as they thought "
I agree |
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FAB seems to a large chunk of 2 polar groups
The woe is me brigade who take personal offence at getting blocked and go into a deep depression
And the 'block police' who frequently quote the US constitution as enshrining their right to block anyone who looks in their general direction
Fortunately for the rest of us their seems to be another large group of more relaxed normal people somewhere in the middle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The block is a crude, but effective tool.
If for your own reasons, others don't respond, have a big no Bi men in the profile(though she is bi), age range, location, keep winking but delete your Hi email, and of course you don't find them suitable, blocking saves a lot of time by stopping you and them from interacting.
Each to their own on the block button |
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