Douche, fingers and lube, plugs gently, then try gently with cock.
Try pushing ‘out’ gently as if you’re having a poo, your bum will open and relax and he’ll slip in.
Now, first time especially, it’s likely to sting for the first minute or two but ensure he stays still and lets you relax into it. Then proceed gently.
Did I say lube? Use lots. |
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"Douche, fingers and lube, plugs gently, then try gently with cock.
Try pushing ‘out’ gently as if you’re having a poo, your bum will open and relax and he’ll slip in.
Now, first time especially, it’s likely to sting for the first minute or two but ensure he stays still and lets you relax into it. Then proceed gently.
Did I say lube? Use lots. "
All of this … especially about the lube. Use more than you think you’ll need and make sure to use water based stuff, oh and try to relax |
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"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "
you dont say which one of you is getting or or giving it.
go slow
go on all 4s you open up better
lube be gentle
stop and wait until they adjust listen to them
practice also helps
oh and if the females getting it why not the male as well
the female gets the real thing whilst the male gets the but plug  |
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Start with fingers, if you think you have enough lube USE MORE
Also try to relax, talk to each other and make sure you know each others cues and responses.
It took a while training wifey, I think a lot of that was her own anxiety around anal (she was never pressured by me) |
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By *adeiteWoman 4 weeks ago
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Honestly for first time try spooning for anal. Ok your side you're very relaxed and eventually once comfy, you can sorta turn slightly, lift your left closest to his body, he can skooch under more and get deeper and okay with your pussy or use toys too. Win win! |
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"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "
A lot already covered above but also use a dildo in your prep. (With a flared end!!) Don't want it getting pulled up.
Found a big difference in a butt plug that pops in Vs a dildo that keeps you umm ready |
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All has been said… but the 2 key ‘ingredients’ are relax …. and time!!
You need to be relaxed not tense….
Give yourself all the time you need to work up from a single digit, to 2, to 3 …. and so on … and remain relaxed.
It is a wonderful feeling …. both ways!
R xx |
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"I'm keen to try taking with a couple but tried twice and was too tight .it fekking hurt my bum xx  "
You need lube, lots of lube and a gentle build up. Once things start entry, there is a point of stretching and once the head is through the pleasure begins |
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"I'm keen to try taking with a couple but tried twice and was too tight .it fekking hurt my bum xx
You need lube, lots of lube and a gentle build up. Once things start entry, there is a point of stretching and once the head is through the pleasure begins"
And don't be scared to stop, pause and start over. Xx |
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"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "
I think lots of licking your bum hole and keeping the clit stumulated helps alot. Taking it slow and making sure its nice and wet are the one too |
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We had this problem with my wife. She really wanted to take my cock in her ass but I was to big. We started with me playing with her ass hole and gently opening it a little bit at the time. I got to the stage where I had 2 fingers in her sometimes 3.we kept going and using plenty of lube and we got to 4 fingers and I was able to get 4 in every time. After about a week of working on it she said she was ready. And boom I fitted in |
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