If that's what floats your boat, then it's normal for you. I'm guessing you are not looking just for post-op trans, are you? Though they would be classed as women anyway (if it was male to female transition) or men (if it was female to male). |
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To me I don’t have a issue as I’ve got loads of friends that have transitioned, from m to f and f to m, from part time cd to full time trans, however what I’m trying to ask is it normal that she wants to meet them with me as a first time or should she be exploring that in her own first, because she’s never experienced it before so not sure how the atmosphere will be |
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"To me I don’t have a issue as I’ve got loads of friends that have transitioned, from m to f and f to m, from part time cd to full time trans, however what I’m trying to ask is it normal that she wants to meet them with me as a first time or should she be exploring that in her own first, because she’s never experienced it before so not sure how the atmosphere will be "
That's a very different question to the one you asked originally. In my opinion, she is comfortable enough and feels safe enough with you to want to explore other avenues together with you. It's much more daunting, meeting people on your own, as a woman, as even if the online chat goes great, you have no idea what the reality is going to be. They might be saying all the right things, but when the time comes to meet, they could just become a different person, "forgetting" all that was agreed beforehand. Therefore, she chose you to be her "buffer", so she could feel safer with you.
That is my take. Now it's up to you to speak to her and find out her reason for wanting you to be there. Is it just for safety, or is she hoping for some hot bi male action, too? She is the only person who can answer. |
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"To me I don’t have a issue as I’ve got loads of friends that have transitioned, from m to f and f to m, from part time cd to full time trans, however what I’m trying to ask is it normal that she wants to meet them with me as a first time or should she be exploring that in her own first, because she’s never experienced it before so not sure how the atmosphere will be "
It's not 'normal' but also not unusual. |
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It's not 'normal' but also not unusual."
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