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So my fella and I are new to this as a couple. It's his fantasy to see me being fucked by another guy. I totally understand his fantasy and hope to be able to carry it out for him.
What I would be really interested in is the women's perspective of this fantasy. How have people got their head round it. Try to understand I am not asking how people found the actual experience but how did you deal with it from a perspective of it feels wrong to be with someone else because I love my partner. Jealousy,guilt etc.
I totally get its about a strong and trusting relationship. But I would really appreciate responses from females who may have had similar thoughts. |
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"So my fella and I are new to this as a couple. It's his fantasy to see me being fucked by another guy. I totally understand his fantasy and hope to be able to carry it out for him.
What I would be really interested in is the women's perspective of this fantasy. How have people got their head round it. Try to understand I am not asking how people found the actual experience but how did you deal with it from a perspective of it feels wrong to be with someone else because I love my partner. Jealousy,guilt etc.
I totally get its about a strong and trusting relationship. But I would really appreciate responses from females who may have had similar thoughts. "
Is it a cuck scenario? Or is it more hotwifing like stag n vixen? |
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We have slightly different blockers, she sees it as experimental fun, but she has two issues, time/opportunity and chemistry and we don't have time to go out and meet guys for socials to find out if it's a match. The only way is for the right guy to take time to get to know us through online chat and play until she is comfortable. |
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By *m04Couple 8 weeks ago
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First time was a massive feelings of guilt and betrayal, that lasted all of 30 seconds as hubby came over and started passionately kissing me as the other guy was getting acquainted with me, it really does take a lot of trust in the strength of your relationship. Our sex life has been on fire since we started this relatively new journey for us and I’m so glad we did it |
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The closest we have come was when a guy sent us some charming but naughty messages making a fuss of her and being seductively interactive. He had a good well written profile with good pics not just cock pics and we started to refer to him as her admirer. She likes being admired by another and it opened up the conversation but his messages dried up. |
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"a man wanting to watch his wife get fucked by another man is not cuckolding sounds to me like normal swinging / hotwife couple /stag & vixen , cuckolding is much much more "
Think you may be missing the point it’s about having him caged my husband has to watch and be ordered |
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By *oxy jWoman 8 weeks ago
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"a man wanting to watch his wife get fucked by another man is not cuckolding sounds to me like normal swinging / hotwife couple /stag & vixen , cuckolding is much much more
Think you may be missing the point it’s about having him caged my husband has to watch and be ordered "
im missing no point as the op has said nothing about cage or orders ??? jshe just said her man watching so no point missed at all |
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It's all about communication between you both, chat about it both before & after, set any rules/ likes or dislikes you both want to get from it, the main thing to remember is the actual act itself has nothing to do with love, it's only sex ! Pure & simply you're both using another person for your own fantasy & sexual gratification- if you both enjoy it, then as consenting adults there shouldn't be any guilt or remorse & if there is then perhaps either your moving too fast in this lifestyle or shouldn't be in it at all- big thing to remember fantasy into reality isn't always what you'd hoped & expected it to be - but good luck, go with the flow , relax & enjoy yourselves  |
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By *oxy jWoman 8 weeks ago
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op if it cuckolding you seek and your both fully on the same page then just like swinging itself or another kink how can it be wrong or feel its wrong ??? its only wrong if there doubt or one of you are not on the same page ..its no different than swinging as in you play with others..
it dont matter if its roleplay or lifestyle there should never be any guilt from the woman as its all been agreed depends how deep you go as to the mental game for each other not so with roleplay as thats mainly just sex acts anyway ... its rewarding for both not just the woman but in completely different ways..
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"It's all about communication between you both, chat about it both before & after, set any rules/ likes or dislikes you both want to get from it, the main thing to remember is the actual act itself has nothing to do with love, it's only sex ! Pure & simply you're both using another person for your own fantasy & sexual gratification- if you both enjoy it, then as consenting adults there shouldn't be any guilt or remorse & if there is then perhaps either your moving too fast in this lifestyle or shouldn't be in it at all- big thing to remember fantasy into reality isn't always what you'd hoped & expected it to be - but good luck, go with the flow , relax & enjoy yourselves "
Thank you for taking the time to read and understand my post. I know there is a difference between love and sex and I know its the love aspect that's my hangup.
I really want to try but as you say it's about communication and boundaries.
There's probably a long way for us to go before with give this a go
But thank you |
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