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By *alentedf OP Man 11 weeks ago
Near Newbury |
What would the ladies of fab advice be for the following situation.
You are at the gym and are 99% sure you recognise a lovely lady from fab.
Do you say hello?
Message on here first (don't want it to sound stalker ish)
Your genuine advice please. |
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General advice on both counts:
Never approach women in the gym
Never approach fab contacts in the street
Combine and you've got a definite no.
If you really want to approach her then do it through fab so she has the opportunity to block you or tell you it's not her if she's not interested |
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By *alentedf OP Man 11 weeks ago
Near Newbury |
"General advice on both counts:
Never approach women in the gym
Never approach fab contacts in the street
Combine and you've got a definite no.
If you really want to approach her then do it through fab so she has the opportunity to block you or tell you it's not her if she's not interested "
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Leave her alone. If you’re a dick then she’ll have to cancel membership and change gyms to avoid you.
Don’t even message her on Fab to say you’ve seen her at the gym, it rarely comes across as anything but stalker ish / creepy. If she isn’t attracted to you then she knows you are at the gym - she’ll have to cancel and change gyms.
Just don’t. |
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"Personal and fab life are completely separate. If you recognise anyone, respect their privacy and keep it moving."
Totally this.
Even in the fetish club I regularly attend I've had a guy come up to me and say 'hey, are you... from fab'?
No, no I am not. Go away. |
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By *ixie888Woman 11 weeks ago
Newcastle under Lyme |
I concur. Had some guy on here message me to say he'd seen me in the local aldi. I was with my teenage daughter.
Instant block and spine shudder.
Avoid or certainly proceed with caution x |
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If anyone does feel it necessary to message someone and say they've seen them somewhere and I would very strongly advise against it, for goodness sake send a clear face picture, say who you are, where you've seen them and assure them you will never approach them in public.
However I cannot stress enough that unless they have made it very clear that it's acceptable that this is an extremely bad idea. |
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"Don't approach, vanilla and fab are very separate and id find it creepy.
If you want to message her then do so but without mentioning you've seen her around.
Mrs "
This.
If you approached me via what youd suggested.
Id run a mile and probably change gyms.
Ive only ever bumped into anyone once that I recognised from. Club and vice versa (in Lidl of all places.) We completely blanked each other.
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