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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! " Completely agree I think some people on here live in crack dens | |||
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"Legal disclaimers must be so thick I always ask if I take them what's the next step lol I get blocked every time" Haha I've asked a few people that and got the same result! Not a fan of graphic profiles. Do like something's left to the imagination or discovery in person. | |||
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"Repeated emails one after another over days often weeks from the same guys after an initial courtesy no thanks reply on day one, similarly constant friend requests from the same people week after week." Time to teach for the ‘block’ button | |||
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"A list of demands as long as my arm with "these are my preferences" tagged on the end" Completely agree with this. Those profiles read like a person specification! Not for me. | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! " Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ | |||
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"Messages that we get with"mmmmmmm" in them" That bugs me too I've never understood it | |||
"Men’s hard on pics naked sat on toilet (likely just had a shit, urgghh)" This made me laugh too much | |||
"Hidden veris" Whay's wrong with hidden veris? | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! Completely agree I think some people on here live in crack dens " 100%!! We check out the background as much as the photos 
Instant turn off as are the graphic jizz shots and one word messages x | |||
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"Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️" I completely agree with this. There is such a sense of entitlement with these profiles, like we as men should be grateful and honoured that should we meet these requirements they would accept a message from us. Oh what joy! It just makes me think get your head out of your ass. Plus some of these profiles with requirments wouldn't stand a chance in the real world, its only because the cock to pussy ratio is so out of balance that they even get a look in. | |||
"Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I completely agree with this. There is such a sense of entitlement with these profiles, like we as men should be grateful and honoured that should we meet these requirements they would accept a message from us. Oh what joy! It just makes me think get your head out of your ass. Plus some of these profiles with requirments wouldn't stand a chance in the real world, its only because the cock to pussy ratio is so out of balance that they even get a look in." Yes, exactly that, an entitlement. Because they've been in a "position of power", it goes to their heads. I've noticed that the police have a tendency to suffer from the same. Exactly, I've noticed the same thing: majority of those sorts of women are not even hot at all. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I think it's some sort of hatred or something. They seem to punish men for their lack of attention. I really don't know. Either way, I find it massively off-putting. | |||
"Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I completely agree with this. There is such a sense of entitlement with these profiles, like we as men should be grateful and honoured that should we meet these requirements they would accept a message from us. Oh what joy! It just makes me think get your head out of your ass. Plus some of these profiles with requirments wouldn't stand a chance in the real world, its only because the cock to pussy ratio is so out of balance that they even get a look in. Yes, exactly that, an entitlement. Because they've been in a "position of power", it goes to their heads. I've noticed that the police have a tendency to suffer from the same. Exactly, I've noticed the same thing: majority of those sorts of women are not even hot at all. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I think it's some sort of hatred or something. They seem to punish men for their lack of attention. I really don't know. Either way, I find it massively off-putting." its simple if a guy reads my profile and thinks he needs to jump thru hoops then hes misread .. my dont are there to dis-encourage them as i dont want to meet them ... if a guy thinks thats man hate then thats really their own problem . there nothing wrong with women wanting what they want and dont want seems alot of guys see that as wrong ... but the good ones see thru that a stand to the front i jump thru hoops for no one and i dont want others doing so for me i just want thoses who are hot and on the same page | |||
"Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I completely agree with this. There is such a sense of entitlement with these profiles, like we as men should be grateful and honoured that should we meet these requirements they would accept a message from us. Oh what joy! It just makes me think get your head out of your ass. Plus some of these profiles with requirments wouldn't stand a chance in the real world, its only because the cock to pussy ratio is so out of balance that they even get a look in. Yes, exactly that, an entitlement. Because they've been in a "position of power", it goes to their heads. I've noticed that the police have a tendency to suffer from the same. Exactly, I've noticed the same thing: majority of those sorts of women are not even hot at all. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ I think it's some sort of hatred or something. They seem to punish men for their lack of attention. I really don't know. Either way, I find it massively off-putting. its simple if a guy reads my profile and thinks he needs to jump thru hoops then hes misread .. my dont are there to dis-encourage them as i dont want to meet them ... if a guy thinks thats man hate then thats really their own problem . there nothing wrong with women wanting what they want and dont want seems alot of guys see that as wrong ... but the good ones see thru that a stand to the front i jump thru hoops for no one and i dont want others doing so for me i just want thoses who are hot and on the same page" I'm not sure if you're just discussing the issue openly or if you're trying to defend some type of behaviour. As far as I'm concerned though, the arguments you presented represent you and your own personal profile. I've read your profile and it's firmly not in the category that me and the other guy are referring to. Therefore, I wouldn't say any of the points I've mentioned would apply to you personally. In your profile, I'm not reading anything narcissistic, I'm not reading any sexism or anything of the sort, and I'm sure other men would agree with me. The defence you've raised isn't necessary in your case, although I appreciate your comments. It's interesting to read what people think about issues. X | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️" 100% this… think it should work both ways | |||
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"A list of demands as long as my arm with "these are my preferences" tagged on the end" I can’t stand this either. I am also baffled by people who cannot accomodate but also cannot travel either. | |||
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"Toilets - why. Messy rooms - really. Photos of Mr/MrsSexypants with their pet cat/dog in the photo. Photos with kids toys/babypens in the photo. But a nice radiator....love a radiator photo background. " Totally agree with all of the above. Said no to somebody posing in a photo next to a baby’s potty (that wasn’t empty) 🤢 I am very keen to search to find a sexy radiator shot …. 😁 Mrs SW | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ 100% this… think it should work both ways" absolutely spot on and sadly it's getting worse. Imo fab was alot better 5/10 years ago | |||
"A list of demands as long as my arm with "these are my preferences" tagged on the end I can’t stand this either. I am also baffled by people who cannot accomodate but also cannot travel either. " I have cannot travel cause I can't and won't too many time wasters for me to waste money getting there And it's easier to put cannot accommodate and just put a meet up when I can as it's rare | |||
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"A list of demands as long as my arm with "these are my preferences" tagged on the end I can’t stand this either. I am also baffled by people who cannot accomodate but also cannot travel either. I have cannot travel cause I can't and won't too many time wasters for me to waste money getting there And it's easier to put cannot accommodate and just put a meet up when I can as it's rare" Hide your profile then until you can meet, otherwise it it is a waste of time people checking out your profile | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ 100% this… think it should work both ways absolutely spot on and sadly it's getting worse. Imo fab was alot better 5/10 years ago "  | |||
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"I’m an Alpha, Dom… Trust me. If you have to say it then you certainly ain’t. " I love messages or profiles like that... amuses me greatly What normally turns us off is bare play being obvious when they state safe. Also those that state * insert one race here* men/women only Also for me if a guy goes on about his cock size... be it mentioning that its small, normal or large.. it puts me off. Cali | |||
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"Men’s hard on pics naked sat on toilet (likely just had a shit, urgghh)" Eeee! | |||
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Well I guess a few from us:
- Cock photos hanging out of people's high visibility work wear
- The dreaded 'black hole' photos, we don't need to see your internals thanks!
- People who post 'all' the time for interaction, chill out! | |||
"Men flexing their muscles in front of a mirror I just automatically think little dick. Lou xx" I can confirm .. this is true 😂 | |||
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"Men flexing their muscles in front of a mirror I just automatically think little dick. Lou xx I can confirm .. this is true 😂" i would disagree. | |||
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"We've all got our things or 'ick's' that instantly put us off a profile on Fab so interested to hear some of yours?! Ours is when people have messy rooms in photographs! Many women on here simply don't get this, but here goes; Many feel that as a woman, it's acceptable to write anything they like on their profiles, and that all men will still be drawn to, and obliged to abide by whatever is written. A typical example of this is when a woman turns her profile into a public and blatant showcase of narcissism; "Don't bother messaging me if", "I'm looking for only", "follow these rules of you want a response", "don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other", "If you want a chance, say this, do this, do that, etc". Some profiles are honestly a massive list of regulations! I'm not joking. From what I gather, women think that this cuts out the chaff and leaves only the good stuff. I put it to you, however that no guy with any shred of self-respect would bother to message you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️" I also find that you must be “ Tall “ what is it with this tall business , you must be this or you must be that , its like if you dont tick all these boxes you’ve got no chance . | |||
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"Filters" Interesting…. Considering you have filters on your own profile… | |||
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"Disgusting arrogance" Ooh, yes! I’m all for knowing your own worth, but don’t think you’re better than everyone. I think this tends to be a single guy problem in general though | |||
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"Messages that we get with"mmmmmmm" in them" This and all the legal statements, they are as likely to turn up to court to protect their profile and photos as they are likely to turn up for a meet. | |||
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"The level of entitlement. Close up cock, vag & arshole pics 🤮. Dirty nails in pics. Most men too. Mrs " Dirty nails 🤢 | |||
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