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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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I think a lot of women are naive to think they have never been with an attached man. People lie because they know women have strong views on this subject, so does it really make a difference if you never truly know? Probably not. I wouldn't set out to harm anyone but my play partners private life is none of my business unless we have established something more than just sex. |
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Cheating is never a good idea.
We have found meeting separately can be exciting for both of us, we have different things we enjoy so sometimes it's good to meet on our own.
The only thing we insist on is knowing the other is safe.
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"Married men are usually more reliable and not looking for anything more than sex. Which suits us"
This is exactly our thoughts too. We've had much more drama and horrible situations from single guys continuing to harass than we've ever had from a wife who's found out.
Sorry if that makes us sound bad but as far as I'm concerned the morals and reasons sit with the people doing the cheating not us.
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So i will only meet married men if their partner is aware. We aren't into cheating.
I do always prefer to meet married men, from my experience they just seem more reliable and treat me correctly.
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Humans do what we are naturally wired to do - all this marriage and relationship are man mad thing to consolidate the wealth or find someone who can do your laundry for free/basically run your house for free. Love is the utmost thing, and it comes to you naturally so is sex so is hunger - who are we to judge what is right or wrong when it comes to natural desires…your love fades away over the period or time…your desire to have sex fades away and hunger too…so time kills everything over the period…so if you hold everything throughout your life….what is left towards the end…a life led with so many compromises that made you suffer more than enjoying the life….you only have 227,840 hrs (80yrs, 8 hrs/day) in this life to really taste the life in this life….now calculate how much are left in your life..and remove first and last 16 yrs of life..a Buddhist monk told me when I asked the same question to him…btw his wife left him because he fell in love with…..Buddha… |
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"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.
Never again. "
Here’s one reason not to go with an attached man without his wife knowing! The hassle and grief you don’t need haha |
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"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.
Never again. "
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But the question remains unanswered: how do you discern or vet them? I'm sure there's an obvious answer; indulge me.  |
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No from me.
I'd instantly have zero trust in that person and that is paramount when the safety of my entire world is as stake.
Brunette knows every single detail of mine, the good the bad and the ugly... as well as I know hers. That's commitment in a nutshell, to hold someone's entirety in your hands requires a huge amount of trust from your partner, to shit on your best friend who accepts you for you (as they know it) is just heartless.
If you can lie to your everything like that you can lie about anything.
Jay
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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When I was single on here I didn't want attached or married men ...
I found them highly unreliable and inconsistent... never available evenings and weekends .... and if they were it was a quick fuck n go.
I also didn't want the potential drama.
So having said that I did unknowingly meet 2 married men who lied until after we'd shagged and met 1 unknown guy for a social till I found out he was married. |
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"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.
Never again.
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But the question remains unanswered: how do you discern or vet them? I'm sure there's an obvious answer; indulge me. "
We only meet in clubs now so not many married guys would attend clubs we'd hope. All you can do is ask and hopefully get a true answer, honestly the abuse we got was off the scale as she had our mobile number from him. |
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"Married men are usually more reliable and not looking for anything more than sex. Which suits us
This is exactly our thoughts too. We've had much more drama and horrible situations from single guys continuing to harass than we've ever had from a wife who's found out.
Sorry if that makes us sound bad but as far as I'm concerned the morals and reasons sit with the people doing the cheating not us.
Pretty much this for us.
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By *WB85Man 12 weeks ago
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You're relying on men, that likely aren't getting it at home to tell you the truth....when they're desperate to fuck.
It's a very difficult process, but we find that the truth always comes out.
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I would say that most of the ladies I have had the pleasure of their company have been married/attached.
Of them, I would say the vast majority advertise themselves as single or certainly no mention of being attached.
I prefer it. They will not pester me to go to the cinema or take them out for a drink or meet their fucking nieces or nephews etc etc |
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By *MattyMan 12 weeks ago
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Might not be agreeable to most but as long as you both agree then it is what it is, sometimes there are all here for a reason and whilst its a choice we make freely its not ours to judge  |
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"Totally agree, I’m attached and don’t mind if others are but no one deserves to be cheated on - just leave them if your not happy if fairest to all "
Surely you're criticising yourself with that comment. That's unless you have your partners consent of course? |
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"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings "
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Sometimes, on Fab, catching feelings is as easy as catching butterflies with an invisible net, unless you're a lepidopterist. 🦋 |
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"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings "
I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really |
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"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings
I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really"
I should've worded it better. Yes, you're right anyone can catch feelings. I meant to say even if they get attached, I wouldn't have to worry about them wanting more as they are married and they're less likely to leave their partner |
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"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings
I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really
I should've worded it better. Yes, you're right anyone can catch feelings. I meant to say even if they get attached, I wouldn't have to worry about them wanting more as they are married and they're less likely to leave their partner "
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Somewhere up this thread is a comment about it being in a moral grey area. Everything in this website would be judged as morally wrong by the majority of the population that aren’t members of this site.
Let’s not judge one another in here, just have fun. |
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You never can be 100% sure because men will tell you they are single even if they’re not. We take interactions at face value and go with our gut feeling.
We do get messages from married men. They are usually happy in their circumstances on the whole but have a vanilla wife or there is other reasons why they use the site. They are only human and have desires like the rest of us. I imagine it must be frustrating to be in a marriage where the sex is mismatched.
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