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By *eznhannah OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

has any one else came across this, we were in a club recently on a mixed night 2 couples and 2 reasonably atractive girls, and maybe 12 single guys, the other couple told us the 2 single girls were working girls who were there to beef up the numbers, dont know what the arrangement was in terms of payment, but we made a hasty exit as not really somthing we want to get mixed up in, been doing clubs happily for a few years now but not come across anything like this before, have any of you nice people came across anything similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hi there....yes we have come across it a few times although the club considered them to be single girls. It was so obvious they were working by the way they were with people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"has any one else came across this, we were in a club recently on a mixed night 2 couples and 2 reasonably atractive girls, and maybe 12 single guys, the other couple told us the 2 single girls were working girls who were there to beef up the numbers, dont know what the arrangement was in terms of payment, but we made a hasty exit as not really somthing we want to get mixed up in, been doing clubs happily for a few years now but not come across anything like this before, have any of you nice people came across anything similar"

Name and shame the club!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pop in 2 a club n only stayed for the 1 drink was far 2 dear omg nearly £4 a pint

an most of the girls who were siting on the floor at corner look under 18 barely nout on

I took my female pal who was wanting to do the pole dancing but was told has 2 do extra she wasn't willing an we both left in a hurry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the privayte club in aston has working girls there, you as a customer don't pay them the club does, you just pay the entry free, basically the girls are there to cater for the single guys, they can;t say no so if a guy wants sex he knows hes going to get it unlike other clubs where its hit and miss, personally i don't have a problem with them, there are there to provide a service and they do it, if you don;t want to play with them you dont have to, from my point of view because of the working girls its rather pointless me going, i have been a couple of times and find it very hard to get sex simply because men are not going to take the time to talk to me when i could say after 20 mins of chat i dont want to go to a room with them when they can't just join in with the working girls, so from a female point of view its not a very good club if you want to play from a mans its great lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Ive never noticed anything like that at clubs but then again it has'nt made itself obvious to us...perhaps it goes on more than we think?

If I thought it was going on we would make a hasty exit as well..with a refund and make sure it was reflected in a review of the place

If a club needs to boost its numbers with prostitutes then it does'nt say much about the club!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"the privayte club in aston has working girls there, you as a customer don't pay them the club does, you just pay the entry free, basically the girls are there to cater for the single guys, they can;t say no so if a guy wants sex he knows hes going to get it unlike other clubs where its hit and miss, personally i don't have a problem with them, there are there to provide a service and they do it, if you don;t want to play with them you dont have to, from my point of view because of the working girls its rather pointless me going, i have been a couple of times and find it very hard to get sex simply because men are not going to take the time to talk to me when i could say after 20 mins of chat i dont want to go to a room with them when they can't just join in with the working girls, so from a female point of view its not a very good club if you want to play from a mans its great lol"

Why can't they just go to a brothel then? theres plenty around lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because the private club is £40 for guys to get in and they usually have 2 or 3 working girls there and they can stay all night, you tell me a brother than give you the option to have sex with upto 3 women over a 8 hour persiod for £40 lol

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By *asperthedogCouple over a year ago

midlands

weve been to the private club and we like the place, the fact that the have a couple of girls to entertain the single guys makes for a very relaxed atmosphere. the club is up front about it and if you dont like it dont go simple as that. Some clubs are full of soft swingers and couples with issues so we dont go there, you pay your money, you take your choice

still find it intriguing that swingers get all judgemental as im sure there are plenty of people in society who deem what we do as bad

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By *leasureDomeMan over a year ago

all over the place

Why can't they just go to a brothel then? theres plenty around lol"

because its illegal and this way its a nice way of sidestepping the law and also to remain relatively safe ...its win win for the girls and the club .

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By *ricky_DickyMan over a year ago

Mirfield

I've heard of this sort of thing going on, but as I don't frequent clubs I can't say I've ever encountered it. Personaly for me as a single guy if I went to a club and got the chance to play would I be bothered, think if I found out later the lady in question was a working gal I think the old ego would take a dent, they say ignorance is bliss.

One thing I have encountered is working girls on swingers sites.

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By *leasureDomeMan over a year ago

all over the place

One thing I have encountered is working girls on swingers sites."

you should report em straight away and get em nuked or we will be deluged

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

So when I go to clubs alone people might think Im working???

Suppose it could be worse - they might think I was a horny old woman after a shag....

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By *eznhannah OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

this isnt an anti working girl thing by the way, they have to make money like eveybody else, so good luck to them, but, just dont think it has anything to do with swinging, swinging clubs are supposed to be for swingers, dont really want to name and shame club as A,dont know if i,m allowed to, and B, have allways had a good time there before, for me though if i was a single swinger part of the exctement would be in the chase i wouldnt be up for paying for it, or having it paid for me,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We personally think it's a good idea on the right night and the girls are employed by the club. We have been to a few greedy girl nights that worked very well on that basis and actually became very popular with couples. The girls kicked off the "action" at an appointed hour. Which got everybody else going, some nights the were only at it for a short while they couldn't get a look in!!

We like to play when we go to clubs and enjoy playing in public areas. We dont mind being watched but it isnt part of the turn on. We would rather have paid hostesses than the snobby poker faced voyeurs, mostly couples, we suspect soft swingers who stand silently watching us play, or slightly worse pontificate over our motivation with some pompous cod psychobabble like we arent really there. Then they look down their noses and blank us when we say hi afterwards. It's just plain rude. Give us a working girl any day. Someone with an open mind and a warm heart.

None of the clubs we know of make a secret of the arrangement with hostesses.If you dont like it dont go. Stick to saturday night couples only. It's safe there.

If you chose to be entertained with voyeurism keep in mind the people you are watching are swingers too having a night out. Not just a sideshow to provided for your amusement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

I swing because I enjoy the sexual freedom and the chance to meet other people with the same outlook on life not to meet with people who are being paid to fuck,For me it tarnishes my concept and beliefs of what swinging is all about xx

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By *asperthedogCouple over a year ago

midlands

"I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it your getting into clubs free then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

Not hand in hand but sometimes I suppose there is some overlap. Are the club hostesses or greedy girls doing the same job as a girl in a massage parlour? I would venture to suggest no, from very personal experience not at all.

Imagine if you will we fulfil our ambition of running our own club finally putting our money where our mouth is. We play with the members to help make the nights go off better. We are experienced swingers and will play with most provided they are friendly, clean and practice safe sex. Does our commercial involvement compromise you ethical code?

As a previous post said Brothels are illegal which is perverse. I have see working girls on an industrial estate getting into strangers cars. How dangerous is that. Some of us are not as fortunate as we are. They dont have a loving partner but they have the same needs and they are just as real. The girls who cater to them should be allowed to work together for their own protection.

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By *asperthedogCouple over a year ago

midlands

sod it

what i was trying to say

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it youre getting into clubs for free then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I pay to get into vanilla clubs as well that does'nt mean that I would expect them to be full of working girls...I thought I was paying for the environment and not for anything other than that

So do you think that because you have to pay to get into a swingers club you are paying for sex?

I don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Ive just been thinking about this,I think swinging is for swingers and prostitution is for people who want to pay for sex..Personally I don't think they belong together

I don't think our local brothel owner would be too impressed if I started hanging around outside their doors with a few other swingers and took all their business away by offering to sleep with their punters for free! lol

Not something I would do

but just trying to look at it from a different angle lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sod it

what i was trying to say

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it youre getting into clubs for free then"

You pay for the club facilities not the sex lol

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By *asperthedogCouple over a year ago

midlands

"sod it

what i was trying to say

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it youre getting into clubs for free then

You pay for the club facilities not the sex lol

but if it wasnt for the sex you wouldnt go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sod it

what i was trying to say

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it youre getting into clubs for free then

You pay for the club facilities not the sex lol

but if it wasnt for the sex you wouldnt go"

If it wasnt for the chicken i wouldnt go to KFC either lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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We don't always play at clubs if there is'nt anyone that we want to play with but what we do do is always have a great time in an atmosphere and environment that we like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't always play at clubs if there is'nt anyone that we want to play with but what we do do is always have a great time in an atmosphere and environment that we like

Yep we go somtimes just to chill,chat and sauna etc just nice to be with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Despite the way some singles act, and it seems to be getting worse at a lot of places, Honeypot you are 100% right. You pay to get admission to a venue. For some it may be a place you may meet likeminded people. For others it may be a place to indulge their desires and somewhere to play.

I can appreciate the analogy to a vanilla club. So far however I havn't found a vanilla club that features a big round bed with loads of naked people writhing on it !! You wouldnt ever go to a vanilla club and expect to pull, but you may find dancers paid to get people on the floor.

Each to their own, If you dont like the thought that some girls at a club are paid to be there dont go to it,but please dont claim some moral high ground. The people who frequent those clubs are different to you not worse. It isnt to every taste and there are plenty of clubs that dont do it just stick to going there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" swinging clubs are supposed to be for swingers, dont really want to name and shame club as A,dont know if i,m allowed to, and B, have allways had a good time there before, for me though if i was a single swinger part of the exctement would be in the chase i wouldnt be up for paying for it, or having it paid for me, "

Think there should be a C and D there as well C, You have 100% proof or a very good lawyer ! Ive been to a few clubs on " greedy girls nights" and the girls were all up for a lot of fun.. Ive also had a guy telling me my now wife must be on the game ( didnt know she was with me when he was telling me this ) as shes having to much fun ( it was a greedy girls night )

D, theres no name and shame in the forum ... says in the rules just before you post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"Despite the way some singles act, and it seems to be getting worse at a lot of places, Honeypot you are 100% right. You pay to get admission to a venue. For some it may be a place you may meet likeminded people. For others it may be a place to indulge their desires and somewhere to play.

I am not claiming any higher moral ground at all and I can't see in any of my posts where I have done so

All I have done is express an opinion with out disrespecting anyones elses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree after all us lot are not exactly the social "norm"

And after all society is always right to judge others isnt it?

Craig x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

everyone swings for their own reasons tho dont they, some like the friendship and scoial side of it, while for others its just about sex, thats why there are clubs etc to cater for all, i have been to clubs many times and found not a lot going off, i do find it off putting, some can be like a social in towels lol to me the point in going to a swingers club is to have sex if its not happening you have to try another club, and the private club is a very hard core club not for the faint hearted, but thats what some people are after

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure how saying that working girls and swingers differ quite fundamentally can in anyway be construed as taking the moral high ground?

My understanding is that swingers enjoy recreational sex, working girls get paid for sex - quite a big difference.

Personlly if we go to a club, we got to go to a club and see what will happen in much the same way that if we meet a couple we are not going with any exoectations.

I do not pay for sex if I pay to get in to a swinfgers club, I pay to get in the club. I kind of see your logic but to be honestly it's seriously flawed.

As to whether working girls have a place in clubs, well personally I would say not, but I can see that they can and do serve a purpose. But to me, I'd like to play with somebody that wants too, rather than somebosy who is paid by the club's management to fuck anybody and everybody in order to keep the single males happy. To me that's not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's a thought, if a woman is a working girl, can she not be a swinger too?

I mean away from the payment side.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you are taking a bit of a fundamentalist line here. My point is not that all clubs should or do have working girls, but that some do and there's nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought, if a woman is a working girl, can she not be a swinger too?

I mean away from the payment side.

That pop was you flipping the lid off a whole new can of worms !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought, if a woman is a working girl, can she not be a swinger too?

I mean away from the payment side.

Agreed we know a few working girls who are also swingers

Love the new name by the way it really suits you lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought, if a woman is a working girl, can she not be a swinger too?

I mean away from the payment side.

Agreed we know a few working girls who are also swingers

Love the new name by the way it really suits you lol xx"

We like the name too, was cleverly thought up by 'dirtyduo'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When we used to go to a club there were often W/G's there.Some on their own,in groups or with well off punters.

There was never any qustion of payment from club members and they enjoyed themselves playing the same as anyone else.It probably made a pleasant change for them to be able to choose who they played with instead of vice-ver'sa.

You could usualy tell the ones who were hired for the night out.They arrived in a big flash Merc or Jag,driven by a guy old enough to be their granddad with a similar couple in the back.They were usualy petite black girls or Thai's,very pretty and sexily dressed. Sometimes the lap dancers from the clubs across the road would also drop in.

I might add that this was on couples and single girls nights too,not Fridays.

Good luck to all concerned we say,a W/G friend of ours was also a member of the club and used to go with us.

XXXX

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By *eznhannah OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

D, theres no name and shame in the forum ... says in the rules just before you post

okay as for c have (since putting on forum) asked a few people about this club who we know who are, or have been regulars at club, they do use working girls on most of the single nights which has drove a lot of the couples away, the guys pay in the club, then if they want a working girl they have to pay extra, it is not advertised so if you go as a couple as we did you will NOT be told this is going on, and as for D erm..that is what we are saying pretty much in A lol,

we are swingers we are proper swingers, we want to go to proper swinging clubs and meet proper swingers to swing with

in that philosophy there is no room for working girls or men who pay for sex, simple as..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

never been to the club as I live in Cardiff but each to their own. Members of the club dont have to go with working girls. There are a few working girls even on the site. Each to their own I suppose. Maybe the recession is forcing more fems to be "working girls" who knows. But people have a choice, they can go with the working girl or not simple as that.

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple over a year ago

Travelling

We have never been to a club and seen this, but then we only ever go on couples nights. We guess then there would be no call for a club to bring in these girls.

Also, working girls have been known to swing. From the girls we knew, their point of view it is two very different things, tho everyone is different so it's possible some dont see a difference. At the end of the day, we guess swinging has no hard and fast rules, everything is down to personal choice and we are all grown up enough ( we hope! ) to accept that just because some people see swinging differently they are not necessarilly wrong.

puts soapbox back in the FS store cupboard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

in the private clubs defence, can't speak for any others with working girls there cause i dont know any, they dont at any point on the web site advertise and put themselves over as a swinging club, nowhere at all on there web site is the word swingers or swinging even mentioned, its a sex club, some get paid to be there some pay to go in lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

As a single fem it really isn’t my bag having working girls around… for a variety of reasons. However, I don’t have a problem with clubs having working girls as long as they are open about it… so I can choose if I want to go there or not.

I know it works well for some couples who want to involve another woman without all of the fuss it can involve finding one on a swinging site.

I can only anticipate a down side might be when single guys then move from that club to another one which doesn’t have working girls. But then I have never encountered a guy in a swinging club who actually acted out the attitude of “I paid me entry now where is my shag” and if I did I am sure I could handle the situation just fine lol

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By *leasureDomeMan over a year ago

all over the place

"Here's a thought, if a woman is a working girl, can she not be a swinger too?

I mean away from the payment side.

yep does happen under the banner of escort rather than working girl ...

the ones i know do it cus they love sex and like a change from swinging.

All 3 have good well paid day jobs too so its not the money (one is on 80k a year) they seem to love the adventure of acting the paid woman.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

Have seen alot of Working girls in clubs, but not as singles or as hostesses, but as GFE escort bookings..

Personaly we don't care, but if a girl asked us to pay at a club, we would simply burst out laughing..

Quite a few girls goto swing clubs as a personal thing to get away from ther working girl day job.. if they keep the both seperate then why care what they do during day...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I cast no judgement against working girls...but since when has swinging and prostitution gone hand in hand?

I must be completely naive but if I wanted to pay for sex I would go to a brothel

Have seen alot of Working girls in clubs, but not as singles or as hostesses, but as GFE escort bookings..

Personaly we don't care, but if a girl asked us to pay at a club, we would simply burst out laughing..

Quite a few girls goto swing clubs as a personal thing to get away from ther working girl day job.. if they keep the both seperate then why care what they do during day..."

I don't care what anyone does as a day job...if a working girl is attending a club as a swinger then she's not being paid to boost numbers or make the club look better,shes going with a personal interest,the same as the rest of us attending,and not a business interest

and I have no problem with that or the fact that get paid for sex at other times

I have a friend who was a working girl and is now married and a swinger and I work occasionally with another girl who will do escort work to pay for lovely holidays... I do not have a problem with anyone who gets paid for sex

Myself and other in this thread were offering opinions as to what they thought about prostitutes in swinging clubs which is what the OP asked for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't speak for anyone else we can only speak for one girl - Sasha

for those who don't know, Sasha used to work at the private club, there are a number of other members (fems and cpls) who are members of this site who work or have worked there.

Sasha and the others that we know use this site for swinging, keeping in touch with swinging friends and other swinging related topics.

When Sasha worked at the private club she recieved £150 to be at the club, nothing more, who she played with was her choice, the club simply ensured that there were a number of females in the club at all times who were looking to play with single guys.

She no longer goes to the private club as we now go to Chameleons since this is much closer, she recieves no incentives to go to Chameleons, the only reason she has changed venue is because of where she now lives.

Many clubs have "greedy girls" events, the girls are sometimes "incentivesed" to be there sometimes they are not, many of the girls that I personally know who do go to clubs and get incentives also go to other clubs where they dont get incentives simply because there are not enough men to achieve what they want at one club or because they want to go to another club to play with couples not just males and various other reasons.

When we play we play as swingers, simple as, like minded people doing what like minded people want to do, no incentives no money no guilt.

If anyone has a problem with what Sasha used to do they can block us from ever contacting them on this site by using the block facilities

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By *leasureDomeMan over a year ago

all over the place

Well jed and sasha ,all i can say is if anyone is narrow minded enough to hit that block button its a relection on them rather than you and sasha.

The honesty of your post giving people the option is admired certainly by me

MR X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice one Jed

No probs here mate

Dont have any problem with anything anybody wants to do

I love people who judge others and have a cupboard full of skeletons themselves lol

Love honesty and respect others

Life is for living live and love yours if somthing makes you happy just do it sod everyone eles

Take care

Craig and Les xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ok now im genuinly intersted to know how it works, i always though that the girls at the private club had to shag anyone who to wanted to go with them, can they say no to a guy if they don't like them then? and if so is her job up for grabs lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have thought it would be like any other WG environment (other than forced work), where the WG can pick and choose who they will have sex with, of course if one gets too choosy then they wont be asked back there, I guess it's quite the case of so long as the guy is clean and respectful then business is business, if one was to only pick the attractive ones then I guess she may soon be out or work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont actually think thats a bad nights work if it does work like that, i go to clubs as a single female a lot, and i play with single guys, getting paid £150 a night for what you would do for free usually sounds ok to me lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The club owner/managers do have a reason for paying girls so the girls who play with the most guys without question get the most invites to come in, some girls would be invited everyday others like Sasha might only be asked to go once or twice a month, I think they still get the invites for variety and to cover the odd occasion when regulars are not available.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just to throw a slightly different spin on this.

I've never been to a club where I've experienced working girls there, (although I've only ever been to 2 clubs in my life and a private party

) but...

There are two things that seem to be a theme across genuine swingers:

1: Too many single guys pestering for meets/sex

2: A lot of Swingers saying attached guys are cheats and they wont meet them

If a club has working girls for the single (or cheating) guys, then surely it takes the pressure off, the swingers can swing and the singles can be entertained and feel they've had a good evening.

If by chance a couple like a guy and get it on with him, then I'm sure he'd prefer to be with a couple or female who is enjoying his company, than being with someone who's paid for his company.

If he'd rather be with a working girl than the swinger/s then nobody's losing out.

If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

very true but some people have definate ideas on swinging, hence the animosty often shown towards cheating partners, male or female, the same applies to working girls, some thing there is no place for them in swinging establishments and they have the right to thier personal views.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple over a year ago

Stretford

"If a club has working girls for the single (or cheating) guys, then surely it takes the pressure off, the swingers can swing and the singles can be entertained and feel they've had a good evening."

We've been to over 30 different clubs. The only club we've seen working girls, at work, was in Holland.

The singles at that club definitely thought that because working girls were taking on anyone then all the women there would do the same.

It was the nastiest experience we have had in a club and we put it down to the presence of the girls and the atmosphere that engendered.

Our opinion is that clubs that employ working girls are to be avoided.

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By *eznhannah OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

"Just to throw a slightly different spin on this.

I've never been to a club where I've experienced working girls there, (although I've only ever been to 2 clubs in my life and a private party

) but...

There are two things that seem to be a theme across genuine swingers:

1: Too many single guys pestering for meets/sex

2: A lot of Swingers saying attached guys are cheats and they wont meet them

If a club has working girls for the single (or cheating) guys, then surely it takes the pressure off, the swingers can swing and the singles can be entertained and feel they've had a good evening.

If by chance a couple like a guy and get it on with him, then I'm sure he'd prefer to be with a couple or female who is enjoying his company, than being with someone who's paid for his company.

If he'd rather be with a working girl than the swinger/s then nobody's losing out.

If that makes sense."

the thing is a lot of women or couples who go to mixed (singles and couples) nights want to play with single guys, but having working girls there kind of waters down their options, especially for the more mature ladys if you get my drift, why as a single would you spend half the night with a couple with no certain outcome, when there are 2 or 3 young fit working girls who you dont have to try so hard with,even with us a younger couple who would have maybe been up for a bit of mmf on the night in question,we didnt see the point in staying, so all this does is stops genuine couples going to mixed nights then what are you left with, zanadu in manchester went that way it was a swingers club started bringing in working girls, and last i heard is a gentlemens club now,

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By *icekatCouple over a year ago

north east

"If a club has working girls for the single (or cheating) guys, then surely it takes the pressure off, the swingers can swing and the singles can be entertained and feel they've had a good evening.

We've been to over 30 different clubs. The only club we've seen working girls, at work, was in Holland.

The singles at that club definitely thought that because working girls were taking on anyone then all the women there would do the same.

It was the nastiest experience we have had in a club and we put it down to the presence of the girls and the atmosphere that engendered.

Our opinion is that clubs that employ working girls are to be avoided."

Same thing happend to us in a club in France. What made things worse was that condoms were not allways used.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

this is an interesting thread........

i do know of clubs that allow working girls in, be in it a club organised capicity or a single man bringing a working girl in with them

I personally am on the fence. If the club is employing them - I am totally against this. However if someone is bringing a working girl in well....hmmmmm again its not ideal but..from a personal voyers prospective i wouldnt mind watching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sod it

what i was trying to say

if you dont want to pay for sex i take it youre getting into clubs for free then

You pay for the club facilities not the sex lol

but if it wasnt for the sex you wouldnt go"

Clap trap...

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By *eavensg84uCouple over a year ago

Harrow

Its a DEFINITE no to working girls in swingers clubs. If the girls are provided by the club to cater for single guys, it becomes, in legal terms, a brothel and is therefore unlawful. The club is being foolish and is courting a raid. I dont know many swingers who'd like to have their names and addresses taken by the Bill.

Not only that, it makes the single guys think that ALL the women in the club or party are 'working' so dont have the right to say no. Its bad news all round to be honest.

If a single guy takes a working girl to a club as his partner, and they play as a couple, thats legally ok and is less of a problem. What clubs have to watch for (and its not just a problem with working girls) are the 'couples' where the man goes off to play and the woman sits drinking and filing her nails! They are known as 'tickets' and clubs need to politely them out too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it is not just swingers clubs that get pro's in them if you go to regular clubs they are there as they get a good night out cheap and will probabley pick up a client or two at the same time LoL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem with working girls in swinger's clubs is that numbers of genuine swingers will dwindle once it becomes known a club employs working girls. I certainly don't fancy the idea of shagging a girl because she's being paid to shag me, I'd much rather spend a little time getting to know someone in a club and play with her if she finds me attractive and vice versa.

Working girls have their own clearly defined markets and swing club owners are being rather unscrupulous by employing working girls to satisfy his swinger clientelle. Although saying that, if a club wants to use them on single guy nights then I don't have a problem with that, I'd just rather they weren't present on couples nights.

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