A mate of mine (who is married) has told me his wife wants to play out a little fantasy. Apparently, she’s never mentioned this before and they’ve been married some time.
She wants them both to have a date night, but for them to meet at a bar as if they’re having an affair.
They’re not involved in the swinger world in any way, shape or form. Before someone even mentions it, she isn’t having an affair, that’s not the question.
The question is, has anyone ever played this fantasy out? Is it a common thing? Maybe a step closer to the swinger world? |
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It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .
Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging |
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"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .
Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging "
Think this is spot on ! |
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"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .
Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging "
Yeah, ok… I can see that.
I think, for me, I would be uncomfortable in an affair situation so maybe I’ve read into it too much? |
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"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .
Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging
Yeah, ok… I can see that.
I think, for me, I would be uncomfortable in an affair situation so maybe I’ve read into it too much?"
Yes, I think you have. A lot of people do this to add a little spice, it's role play nothing more. They're a married couple having fun. |
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