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They're expensive but it saves a lot of hassle of people messing around and not committing.
Anyone been tempted to use one (or more) to help fulfil their sexual fantasies?
Personally, I'm busy and don't have tonnes of time to trawl through sites and chat to people who are non-committal. |
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I haven't used to pay for it for a while in my 20's I was shy with women so I tried out the paying route, you look for the services you want and get them, no chit chat or wasted talk to be shot down, im all for them |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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It’s wrong
You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that
I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served |
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"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it! "
Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle. |
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"It’s wrong
You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that
I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served"
Appreciate the feedback/ your opinion on this. |
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"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!
Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle. "
I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it... |
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"I haven't used to pay for it for a while in my 20's I was shy with women so I tried out the paying route, you look for the services you want and get them, no chit chat or wasted talk to be shot down, im all for them"
This is it. Seems to straightforward. Simple! |
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"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!
Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle.
I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it..."
Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved. |
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"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!
Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle.
I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it...
Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved."
It can be hard for a couple tbh |
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"To us it's an awful thought of having sex with someone who doesn't freely choose to have sex with us. K.
This is the reason why so far I've never done it... "
I think many people offering ARE choosy about who they meet. Lots can afford to be since those seeking such services aren't exactly few and far between. |
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"They're expensive but it saves a lot of hassle of people messing around and not committing.
Anyone been tempted to use one (or more) to help fulfil their sexual fantasies?
Personally, I'm busy and don't have tonnes of time to trawl through sites and chat to people who are non-committal."
i have in the past booked someone rather than try to look for someone specific and hope all the diaries matched and chemistry etc.
Cali |
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"I was bought up by just my Mother and was brought up up to respect women = clear no from me.
Jay
Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.
If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?
I am curious as to why you feel it's disrespectful?? Genuinely curious "
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Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.
If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?
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many do it because they enjoy it but also making money from it. I've had some throughly good times booking a lady for an hour.
I get that you want them to want you.. so maybe paying isn't right for you but I don't see where the disrespect side comes in...
I feel it's very easy to find someone that does it as a job that they enjoy as to because they have too x |
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I have two friends who were working ladies, they are are the the most sound people I've ever met.
They worked for themselves and paid their taxes.
As long as no one is being hurt without their consent it's ok.
I also know a guy who's wife is not able to have sex so he uses the paid option.
It's a ways to a means for some so it's not all bad. |
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I've been on this site for over a year, I've messaged a few women, had a handful of replies at most,but never met anyone,the women are also looking for what they want to do with the guy, so if the man isn't what the woman is looking for then there's no meet, women have all the supposed power on this site and others like it, when it comes to paying for it it is the woman's choice to see the man but the man gets what he wants |
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Don't judge anyone for doing this but a massive no from me 👎 I need people who desire me as much as I desire them or its just too planned and clinical for me to enjoy it 🤷♂️ If I had to pay for it I know she was just there for money and any action would be like playing snooker with a piece of rope 🤣 |
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"Don't judge anyone for doing this but a massive no from me 👎 I need people who desire me as much as I desire them or its just too planned and clinical for me to enjoy it 🤷♂️ If I had to pay for it I know she was just there for money and any action would be like playing snooker with a piece of rope 🤣"
Yep. My thoughts exactly. I love the snooker analogy by the way.  |
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"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!
Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle.
I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it...
Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved."
I’m intrigued as to what these fantasies entail now  |
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I have a friend who is a really lovely person , she messages me every so often to ask how iam and to make sure i’m ok , and if I need to talk she is happy to listen and shes very understanding that I wear medical things every day . |
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By *AYENCouple 9 weeks ago
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Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.
If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?
many do it because they enjoy it but also making money from it. I've had some throughly good times booking a lady for an hour.
I get that you want them to want you.. so maybe paying isn't right for you but I don't see where the disrespect side comes in...
I feel it's very easy to find someone that does it as a job that they enjoy as to because they have too x "
Although it's not for either of us, I don't think there's anything immoral or disrespectful in it, for either party, but I'm not into casual sex and always have to have a connection. K. |
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"It’s wrong
You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that
I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served"
Some people do it because they enjoy it. Nothing like against their will.
If a woman enjoys sex and is happy to do the transactional no fuss no silly dancing around then more power to them.
Sex workers I know choose their clients. If they're not attracted to someone they simply don't accept the job. Absolutely there are trafficking issues and people who are forced or coerced into it, and that needs to be stopped. But the sex industry for genuinely willing participants is a great place 💜 |
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