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"How do i get my fabbs up !!!!!"
I never understand how it works
I posted a fully clothed pic last week and was on page 1 but can post a boobs out / naked one and get less fabs
It’s mind boggling what is perceived as hot on here  |
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"Im asking a question colin if u ent interested go play with ya corey somewhere eles "
Thank you for viewing my profile. I hope that you weren't too upset by seeing from my verifications that some folks seem to think that I'm a reasonable human being.
Incidentally, it's rather impressive that you can fit 12 grammar and spelling errors into just 16 words.
Bless you. |
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I give fabs as a subtle recognition of class, glamour, style, beauty or kink.
If I think someone is asking for fabs for self validation I'm more restrained in dishing them out.
Each to their own of course. |
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"How do i get my fabbs up !!!!!
Why does it matter...?
Often wonder the same when I see this, but it's probably just low self asteem or something like that.
Me F. "
We don't have low self esteem, far from it. However as exhibitionists we love to get any content we make noticed.. kinda the point. |
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"How do i get my fabbs up !!!!!
I never understand how it works
I posted a fully clothed pic last week and was on page 1 but can post a boobs out / naked one and get less fabs
It’s mind boggling what is perceived as hot on here "
It was a lovely jumper x 😘 |
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I couldn't care less about being on the hot list, I'm not here to get likes or fabs. Some people tend to use this site as an ego boost. most of the people posting pics with captions like "fab to meet" or "fab if you want to lick it" don't seem to meet a lot if ever, They are mostly here to stroke their ego or to boost their self esteem. This site is not a social media site and was never intended to be one.
Mt's x |
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"I couldn't care less about being on the hot list, I'm not here to get likes or fabs. Some people tend to use this site as an ego boost. most of the people posting pics with captions like "fab to meet" or "fab if you want to lick it" don't seem to meet a lot if ever, They are mostly here to stroke their ego or to boost their self esteem. This site is not a social media site and was never intended to be one.
Mt's x"
Couldn't agree more. I'm constantly bewildered - and irritated - by profiles stating explicitly that the writer is not interested in meeting.
I'd start a "What makes someone a swinger?" thread, but I can imagine the torrents of self-righteous ranting that it would provoke from the non-meeters. |
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"In the case why flood your page with pictures if not for other to see just a question ?
If not for other to see or to take notice of
Somewhat like a social media page ?"
We post picturrs to show what we look like, and as this site is aimed at meeting for sexual pleasure it makes sense that they would be of a sexual nature. I see pictures like an advert, not to boost our egos. I get that some like people looking and fabbing their pics as they may be exhibitionists but, the fact still stands that this is a swinging site and should be used to arrange meets not to get "likes or fabs". If people want their pictures looked at and to be adored then they should join OF or p Hub and get paid for it too. This site is slowly becoming a filthy version of f book or X. It just seems pointless to me to be on here just to get looked at. |
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"In the case why flood your page with pictures if not for other to see just a question ?
If not for other to see or to take notice of
Somewhat like a social media page ?
We post picturrs to show what we look like, and as this site is aimed at meeting for sexual pleasure it makes sense that they would be of a sexual nature. I see pictures like an advert, not to boost our egos. I get that some like people looking and fabbing their pics as they may be exhibitionists but, the fact still stands that this is a swinging site and should be used to arrange meets not to get "likes or fabs". If people want their pictures looked at and to be adored then they should join OF or p Hub and get paid for it too. This site is slowly becoming a filthy version of f book or X. It just seems pointless to me to be on here just to get looked at. "
Its for however people feel to use it. Once covid hit it became a shit show anyway.
We for example like to provide content, we also attend clubs regularly.
It's not for anyone but us to decide how we use the site.
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Surely what anyone eles uses this for shouldnt really get your back up as long as they state what they use it for and dont lead any one down the wrong avenue
We also use this for the above but enjoy displaying ourselfs for other people’s satisfaction
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"Surely what anyone eles uses this for shouldnt really get your back up as long as they state what they use it for and dont lead any one down the wrong avenue
We also use this for the above but enjoy displaying ourselfs for other people’s satisfaction
And like hearing back "
I wouldnt say it gets my back up, more of a slight irritation. I'm all for people doing whatever they like regardless of anyone else's opinion. To each their own, but for me it seems pointless. But that's just my opinion and people can chose to ignore it or take it in.
Mrs x |
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By *HUSH-Man 6 weeks ago
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People add you to their hotlist. There’s no way of knowing if you’re on someone’s list unless they tell you.
As for FABs just post pictures and people will either like them or they won’t.
I personally fab very few pictures on here. |
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"In the case why flood your page with pictures if not for other to see just a question ?
If not for other to see or to take notice of
Somewhat like a social media page ?
We post picturrs to show what we look like, and as this site is aimed at meeting for sexual pleasure it makes sense that they would be of a sexual nature. I see pictures like an advert, not to boost our egos. I get that some like people looking and fabbing their pics as they may be exhibitionists but, the fact still stands that this is a swinging site and should be used to arrange meets not to get "likes or fabs". If people want their pictures looked at and to be adored then they should join OF or p Hub and get paid for it too. This site is slowly becoming a filthy version of f book or X. It just seems pointless to me to be on here just to get looked at. "
I would second this all day long |
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"How do i get my fabbs up !!!!!
I never understand how it works
I posted a fully clothed pic last week and was on page 1 but can post a boobs out / naked one and get less fabs
It’s mind boggling what is perceived as hot on here
It was a lovely jumper x 😘"
Hahaha love that  |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"Good spot colon 😂😂😂
Are you OK OP? You're very derogatory toward others on this thread? Why do you feel the need to do it? No one is having a go at you?"
It's day one, overexcited I think and hasn't worked out the forums yet....they'll learn hopefuly |
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