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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
somerset |
well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy isd just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy |
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"Just remember it’s only sex!
real cuckold is far far from it being sex only there a mental side thats bigger than the sex"
Totally agree..most guys..I'd say 90% in fact that message us forget to address the cuck in any messages. |
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By *rufflesCouple 9 weeks ago
manchester |
"well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy isd just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy"
Absolute Bulls**t....I am Cuckold with an extremely attractive HW.
Within our chosen lifestyle, we both enjoy an adventurous and active sex life.
I am not questioning either your "wisdom" nor expert professional knowledge, however, I for one do not fall into any of the three categories..... ie small cock limp cock prem ejac...... that you so wisely assume!!
Would love to know just where you did your research?? |
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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
somerset |
"well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy is just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy
Absolute Bulls**t....I am Cuckold with an extremely attractive HW.
Within our chosen lifestyle, we both enjoy an adventurous and active sex life.
I am not questioning either your "wisdom" nor expert professional knowledge, however, I for one do not fall into any of the three categories..... ie small cock limp cock prem ejac...... that you so wisely assume!!
Would love to know just where you did your research??"
well one calm down its just my opinion and that comes from 30+++ years on the scene and as a real lifestyle cuckold couple and having met and friend with 100s of other reallife cuckold couples ... i dont claim to be anything i just live the lifestyle ...
you can be what ever you want to be im not questioning that.. hotwife couples is a seperate kink/dynamic but over the last few years that has for some cuckold couple got mixed in exspecially fantasy role play cuckold which is the bigger side of cuckold
real lifestyle cuckolding is cuckold for a reason i only named those 3 as they are the most popular reasomes i should of added cuck not good in bed too and some others too real cuckolding is mainly a mental sexual relationship between two people in a loving strong relationship where the cuck simply cant please his wife thats what real cuckolding is anything else fits under the fantasy/roleplay ..or indeed are hotwife couples getting confused thinking its cuckold ...
again these are my opinions that im allowed to express on a open forum ... its what i/we and many other in the lifestyle cuckold think |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy isd just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy
I agree with you, what she said is nonse.
Cuckolding is about the tease. For a guy it’s about knowing your wife is being pleasured by another guy and having that anxiousness when she is on a meet and wondering what’s happening etc. Then it’s the pleasure of hearing about it after or if you’re lucky to witness it then seeing the look on your wife’s face as she is being pleasured and cumming.
Absolute Bulls**t....I am Cuckold with an extremely attractive HW.
Within our chosen lifestyle, we both enjoy an adventurous and active sex life.
I am not questioning either your "wisdom" nor expert professional knowledge, however, I for one do not fall into any of the three categories..... ie small cock limp cock prem ejac...... that you so wisely assume!!
Would love to know just where you did your research??"
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Talking to each other, being open and honest.
Depending on what you both want from it.
From the other side ( I've been lucky enough to enjoy this dynamic with a couple)
It involves 3 people, even if it's the wife meeting another guy alone the husband will still be having lots of different thoughts feelings until you get back.
Through to the husband being involved from the start to the finish.
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By *bcplCouple 9 weeks ago
Aberdeenshire |
"Just remember it’s only sex! "
I think that’s quite possibly the worst bit of advice to be given. To let others whether it be in a swinging, cuckold or hotwife situation takes a lot of trust & communication. The mental side is a huge thing for me, knowing the naughty things the Mrs gets up to is fun and exciting, hearing the events after is a huge turn on. Far much much more than just sex in my opinion.
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"well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy isd just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy"
I a real cuckold situation the cuck wouldn't know anything about it.
Anything else is just fetish/fantasy/role play. |
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I'd suggest that the cuckold scene is so very different for members.
I don't think I've met two cuckold couples that have the same modus operandi or needs.
As others have hinted, the biggest benefit is the mind. If you're both in the groove together, then no matter what transpires, it's a shared journey. |
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Cuckolding has lots of different dynamics to whatever suits the couple.
As a cuck it’s great to watch your wife fuck another guy, like your own private porn film, but Dee has often cucked me whilst I’m not present and that adds it’s own variation to the theme.
Either way, as long as you are both happy with the hot wife getting the enjoyment she needs then it’s working for you ! |
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"Cuckolding has lots of different dynamics to whatever suits the couple.
As a cuck it’s great to watch your wife fuck another guy, like your own private porn film, but Dee has often cucked me whilst I’m not present and that adds it’s own variation to the theme.
Either way, as long as you are both happy with the hot wife getting the enjoyment she needs then it’s working for you !"
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Disagree, the cuck can know about the meet and that builds up the anxiety for him.
The wife can even make him pick out what she is going to wear for it etc.
It’s all for the mind. |
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By *rufflesCouple 9 weeks ago
manchester |
"well lets start with is it real or roleplay/fantasy
real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac
role play fantasy is just what it says not real just acting out a fantasy
Absolute Bulls**t....I am Cuckold with an extremely attractive HW.
Within our chosen lifestyle, we both enjoy an adventurous and active sex life.
I am not questioning either your "wisdom" nor expert professional knowledge, however, I for one do not fall into any of the three categories..... ie small cock limp cock prem ejac...... that you so wisely assume!!
Would love to know just where you did your research??
well one calm down its just my opinion and that comes from 30+++ years on the scene and as a real lifestyle cuckold couple and having met and friend with 100s of other reallife cuckold couples ... i dont claim to be anything i just live the lifestyle ...
you can be what ever you want to be im not questioning that.. hotwife couples is a seperate kink/dynamic but over the last few years that has for some cuckold couple got mixed in exspecially fantasy role play cuckold which is the bigger side of cuckold
real lifestyle cuckolding is cuckold for a reason i only named those 3 as they are the most popular reasomes i should of added cuck not good in bed too and some others too real cuckolding is mainly a mental sexual relationship between two people in a loving strong relationship where the cuck simply cant please his wife thats what real cuckolding is anything else fits under the fantasy/roleplay ..or indeed are hotwife couples getting confused thinking its cuckold ...
again these are my opinions that im allowed to express on a open forum ... its what i/we and many other in the lifestyle cuckold think "
Again you are talking bull shit:
""real lifestyle cuckold is for real reasons ie small cock limp cock prem ejac""
The above is clearly a statement.
How you can now state that you were / are simply giving an opinion is ludicrous.
Whether you have been swinging for 3 or 30 ++ year is immaterial....Cuckolding for numerous couples can be (in my opinion) as different as "chalk and cheese"
"cuckolding is cuckold for a reason i only named those 3 as they are the most popular reasomes"
Yet another example of your expert knowledge!!!
Not sure if you are preaching under the "nom de plume" of "foxyj" or "_impcuck"....either way you are laughable
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"What insights would those with more experience have for potential Hotwives and Cucks? If any?"
Always communicate with each other. Even if you can't express yourself the way you want to, take a breath and make time for each other to process what's going on.
I found in my early years I didn't communicate effectively, but I was a man in my 20's, so no prizes there. But, if you can stop for a few moments and think before acting or reacting, it can save a lot of bother and you learn something about yourself.
Most often it's not how we act in these things, it's how we react that's important.
Always keep an open mind, and listen. We are so good at hearing things, but do we listen? I know I failed on many accounts, but that's life.
Whichever way you go about it, it will have an impact on your life.
Only my tuppence worth but in the end it's only your own opinion that really counts. |
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