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Finding someone you recognise
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Yes I recognised someone from work on here. She posted very naughty pictures. Clearly I would never say anything but whenever she served me at work I had an internal smile.  |
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Been on both sides of this. Mutually recognised each other. Known each other for a LONG time. It was acknowledged, laughed about a bit,and an amicable going about our businesses. Far less scary than some situations others has had |
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By *ampire69Man 17 weeks ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
interesting topic do you stay covert or surface like a submarine and become overt. like stealth mode so stay submerged just raise the old periscope and see who is sailing close he he.
Yes have spotted a few persons i recognise even a cousin, its your choice how you interact, just remember one word CONSEQUENCES 😀 |
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By *ary69321Man 17 weeks ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
I think there was a guy in the near to me section, it says within a quarter of a mile to me, he had no pictures on his profile unfortunately, but he was looking for women for sex, he is in a relationship with a woman I've liked for a while, but I still wouldn't have told her, he has a pretty big family and most of them live near me, most of them are nutters. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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I've recognised the female of a couple on here and they're still on here.
I don't see the big deal, they are very attractive and I just think power to you girl and know she will have success on here.
Haven't felt the need to block them or anything like that. She wouldn't know me from Adam, works locally to me and I see her from time to time. |
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I’ve seen quite a few people I know on here, some I have spoken to and played guess who with one girl, she got it very quick lol.
Others I don’t know but I have seen out and about, would never approach them outside of fab. |
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Depends on the people and context.
We have seen a range of people:
Step mum of a friend
Child of other friends.
Not likely to meet these socially so chat on here but they don’t recognise us (we believe) and we don’t want anything to feel uncomfortable between us at village social events.
Also seen friends on here that we’ve known 25+ years in the vanilla world. Messaged these and have had some great evenings 😉
It’s all about being discreet and considerate for the feelings of others.
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I was in chams once with a previous partner. Whilst in the hot tub the ex bumped into a colleague through work. Though it was awkward at the start we both realised that we had something in common, not something to use against one another |
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By *yrdsisWoman 17 weeks ago
Gleam Street |
Sort of the other way around... A (very lovely) person I'd met a few times turned up at my work to run a training session for some staff.
I was on Reception at the time.
There was an initial moment of ooopppps! But we both just giggled about it and are still friends to this day |
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I no a VERY sexy couple on here. Friends of friends. I fab’d loads of there pics before I recognised them. Now I just have the odd perve over them occasionally. Would love them to approach me but just cant make the first move. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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I was messaging someone on k ik a couple of years ago. She was a sub and I got a message randomly from her dom saying “I think we know each other” and yep one of my colleagues. Interesting never spoken about it though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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"Yeah a close male family member that is actively cheating on their long term partner but with men ! "
Jesus Christ!! Have you not pulled them to the side and said something for them to stop? |
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"Yeah a close male family member that is actively cheating on their long term partner but with men !
Jesus Christ!! Have you not pulled them to the side and said something for them to stop? "
Close family member probably doesn’t know the other is on here so how do you pull them to one side without exposing yourself.
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Exactly this ! If they did say anything they would be exposing themselves too so we don’t worry about bumping into someone we know.
It’s surprising how many club goers don’t visit their local club for fear of being seen.
Everyone we have personally spoken too travel further afield so in our view you are more likely to see someone somewhere other than the local club.
Kat has worked in Derby and is currently an instructor in the local community however we’re not put off going to the attic. |
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I've bumped into a few people I know at clubs/parties over the years, and apart from one person (who was high, and had a paranoid guilt/panic attack), every single person and couple involved were as relaxed and sensible as you'd hope for. Not everyone on here is a basket case ! |
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"Yeah a close male family member that is actively cheating on their long term partner but with men !
Jesus Christ!! Have you not pulled them to the side and said something for them to stop? "
He’s a very clever cheat, has caused a rift in the family to cover his tracks. His gf doesn’t have any social media which is weird - he’s very controlling |
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Been messaged twice by guys who recognised me, one even saw me doing a photoshoot a couple years ago and messaged me saying he saw me doing this photoshoot.
I've also recognised a couple who were in the same running club as me
Surprised I haven't seen anyone down my road as it had a reputation for swinging before i moved in.
Probably loads of people in my area that are swingers |
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I've also photographed a lot of people in my time, lingerie shoots etc etc....... and I've seen them ( and my photos ) on this site and another site beginning with F.
My immediate reaction was Wow would you believe it......
During the shoots nothing was ever mentioned and it was also before I discovered this site |
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I used to live in a flat. When couple first moved in the had sex so loud it was horny funny to begin with then just got bit crazy lol. Anyway they split up, one day coming home from work I saw her at window on laptop I thought be funny if she was signing up to fab.
No lie I logged on there she was new member, she wasn’t my type but she was nice.
When she moved she messaged me not knowing I was her old neighbour, when I told her she said she often thought of me and wanted to suck me off in her bathroom so my gf could hear. |
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I am planning to meet a guy on here who lives fairly close A little nervous that we might know each other socially we have agreed that if it so, we will carry on with the play, as then we both are likely to be discrete about it also quite excited at the idea of occasionally meeting the guy in public that i have stripped to panties in front of and obediently sucked I will try to be subtle but will feel so submissive and my small cock will be so stiff |
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I don't really worry about finding people I know on here, I am not doing anything wrong and if they are in here they will want the expected discretion too.
I am a little freaked out by someone not on here who found out about my lifestyle through a guy I was seeing. He had told his best friend about us and my relationship with hubby etc. A few weeks later said friend was asking him questions and tried to find me on social media. Turns out our kids are in the same class at school. I don't know this friend or his wife so now there are 2 people outside of the lifestyle who I don't know that are aware. I've been assured they have never said anything and I'm almost sure they won't but I am constantly waiting to become the topic of playground gossip. |
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By *aizyWoman 17 weeks ago
west midlands |
Once, a friend who I haven't seen for years brother msged me on here, it was a bit disconcerting as I don't have face pics on public and he has never seen me in just my underwear, but he still recognised me somehow 🤷♀️ |
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Well being Asian my Auntys friend seen i was on here she knew it was me from a photo. Got a message and i freaked out... she came round to my house and we fcuked each others brains out. We see each other once a month. She is older but sex is good. Being Asian we have to be disreet. |
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We've been found but never found someone I know.
As a general rule of respect I would just ignore the fact I know them and quite possibly block if I thought necessary. Because genrally we come here with a hope at least of some privacy and anonymity (even if we know it can't be guaranteed). So it seems totally bad form to say hello, I see you and thus undermine that feeling of security/privacy. Because knowing people who know you know is not always what you want. We don't want to spoil other people's enjoyment of the site or make them feel less care free.
However it really depends who it is. There are are some people I know who would be OK with it and would have probably said hello first if they'd realised. But these a specific cases and based on a good knowledge of the individuals.
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From another site about 5 years ago. A guy asked on the discussion side if anyone had seen his wife outside of the pics he posted.
I replied I had, and gave him rough dates and a location of the party they attended. (For most of the evening they sat opposite me and at the time, I was 99% certain who it was.) Then 3 months or so later the husband asked the question.
He denied it and basically called me a liar. Seriously weird as I was 99% positive it was them.
Never spoke to him again as seemed either a fantasist or a time waster. Shame his wife was seriously wonderful imho. |
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By *ularliWoman 17 weeks ago
Worcester |
Not that I’ve recognised but did have a message from a guy who said he knew me and wanted fun with me.
I’ve known him for years but won’t play as he lives in the same village as me.
There are also plenty from where I live on here that I wondered if I delivered their parcels sometimes lol
I know I do to one guy as he tells me but I’ve no clue who he is.
I’m not worried if anyone recognises me. I’m an adult just like them.
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Have recognised a couple local to me. Said that we may know each other and said I wouldn’t reveal who they are.
Had a friend recognise us and he tried to out us to my group of friends and family.
Lucky for us, he’s always full of shit so no one believed him.
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"Have recognised a couple local to me. Said that we may know each other and said I wouldn’t reveal who they are.
Had a friend recognise us and he tried to out us to my group of friends and family.
Lucky for us, he’s always full of shit so no one believed him.
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He doesn't sound like much of a friend |
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"Have recognised a couple local to me. Said that we may know each other and said I wouldn’t reveal who they are.
Had a friend recognise us and he tried to out us to my group of friends and family.
Lucky for us, he’s always full of shit so no one believed him.
He doesn't sound like much of a friend"
Oh he is no friend of mine anymore. I cut all ties with him straight after that night.
We would never try to out someone we know from here. That would out us too. |
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