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By *bacus OP Man 13 weeks ago
Walton on Thames |
I am writing a book called "How to be the perfect slut for your husband" and hoping my wife finds it, reads it and gets comfortable with the idea of swinging as I would love to share her with other men and watch her with another woman.
The idea is that it is a gentle journey of corruption with each step pushing the boundaries so that eventually she has lost her inhibitions so she can truly let go and enjoy being a hotwife.
I have quite a few ideas on the stages of the journey but I though I'd reach out to you extremely experienced people and ask for any ideas that I could include?
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"You're writing a book for your wife to 'find', hopefully read and decide she wants to swing with you? Have you ever thought of having a conversation :D"
This ^^
The mental acrobatics people do to try and convince their partner to do something...ROFL!
Just show her your fab page OP and ask if she wants to make her own. I'm sure she will jump at the chance!  |
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By *bacus OP Man 13 weeks ago
Walton on Thames |
Sadly, I have had the conversation or at least tried to many times but she isn't interested and I can't get beyond a few words before I'm shut down.
She likes reading though and the book would be read and I would finally get to say to her what I have been trying to say for so long. |
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"Sadly, I have had the conversation or at least tried to many times but she isn't interested and I can't get beyond a few words before I'm shut down.
She likes reading though and the book would be read and I would finally get to say to her what I have been trying to say for so long."
Hmmm
From my point that's really disrespectful to your partner! She has said no.
This is the issue on here... so many guys who do not understand "no"
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"That’s where it all began with me. Communication. Talking about it during sex. Talking about fantasies etc. then after time taking the first steps. "
cant see the harm if he wants to tell her about his fantasies and it would be nice to read about them |
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You might want to consider how your wife might feel having her husband include the words 'how to be perfect for your husband' in a book he's written directed at her. If she thinks you're unhappy with her how she is and you obviously are, and want her to make herself perfect *for you* by being different then I think it might cause you both a lot of problems.
If you genuinely can't talk to each other and I know that it's difficult for many why not start by writing her loving letters telling her all the ways she is perfect for her husband? You might be amazed at the effect it has.
In the meantime if nothing else please rethink the title of your book. |
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"Sadly, I have had the conversation or at least tried to many times but she isn't interested and I can't get beyond a few words before I'm shut down.
She likes reading though and the book would be read and I would finally get to say to her what I have been trying to say for so long."
She's given her opinion on the matter leave her be.
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"Sadly, I have had the conversation or at least tried to many times but she isn't interested and I can't get beyond a few words before I'm shut down.
She likes reading though and the book would be read and I would finally get to say to her what I have been trying to say for so long."
If you're approaching her in the way you've worded your op I'm not surprised she shuts you down |
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This screams unhappy in your marriage and wanting more than she can give you.
If you’re not happy then you need to be adult and discuss it as you’re being very disrespectful.
Question, does she even know you’re in here? |
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