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over a year ago
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I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.
We think we do but when they say no they mean no. |
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"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.
We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "
Bollocks  |
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"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.
We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "
Do you mean women have all the power on here?? I am a bit confused by your last sentence!! |
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"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.
We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "
To an extent it has to work both ways |
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"when anyone says no it should mean no
Men and woman  "
True and it works that way in our relationship however we have met enough couples to know that teh dynamic is differnet in a lot of cases.
We have met peole where it is obvious that the woman is doing it from loyalty or coercion and couples where it is obvious that the man is doing it for similar reasons. I also notice a trend for both sexes to say that they like certain things not because they actually do but because they think its expected of them. I'd say no one is running the whole thing and too many people are doing stuff because they feel they have to. |
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"when anyone says no it should mean no
Men and woman "
However we have seen too many threads stated along the lines of "How do I get my reluctant wife to swing" to know that this sometimes isn't how things work sadly. |
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