In a sexless marriage, I would love to involve her in meeting other couples, or singles, I don’t think she’s having sex with anyone else, any advice on how to approach her with the swinging lifestyle, we are both in good shape and considered good looking, we not had sex in years….. Help |
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Have a conversation about it. Ask if it would interest her.
She says yes……awesome
She says no……..you leave it at that
What you definitely do not do, is try to “persuade” her. She will either want to or not. You respect her wishes.
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Get to improving your intimacy within the relationship, before inviting others in to it. At least increase your openness and ability to talk, share your feelings, worries and more. Put aside the goal of your having others for sexual engagement as it strikes me that you need to bolster what's left of your marriage |
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"your asking stranger how to approach your wife ??? if you dont know your own wife then you have zero chance ...your supose to be the closest person to her ???? "
Got to agree with that view.
I’ve been there and in the end the marriage broke up. We talked lots but in the end it became apparent that we couldn’t overcome the issue.
So it was a case of put up with it, fuck around behind her back. Or leave. |
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By *iverstMan 10 weeks ago
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Could you explain that you need intimacy and if she isn’t prepared to discuss it, or indeed does not want it, would at least agree to you seeking it yourself.
If she does not want intimacy with you, it may be stretching it to ask her to have a liaison with someone she doesn’t really know.
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