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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Id quite like a meet where we hang out cuddled up watching a movie, then have a cuddle maybe a kiss etc. Just intimacy not necessarily fucking. "
Totally get this... I've even looked up cuddle buddies (which is a thing).
It was THE most important part of a relationships physical side to me. Cuddles, physical affection, etc is more to me than sex. Being single it's the one thing I miss - Sunday stroll, roast and then a movie on the sofa under the blanket.
But, as you can see, no real strong feelings about it...  |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Isn't that called being in a Relationship? "
Relationship's tend to come with more strings attached, especially in the vanilla world. Monogamy, chores that have to be done a certain way and on a timescale, limited "own space", etc.
As a happily single chap, the one thing I miss is cuddles and the affection side. I cook, clean, wash and fix things when I want. I have time on the PS whenever I want. I go out when I want. I love the singledom when I want. I scratch the sexy itch when I want (mostly). I just don't have someone to cuddle when I want... |
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"Isn't that called being in a Relationship?
I mean on a regular basis yes. But couldn't you say the same about someone looking for sex ?"
It may be difficult to replicate that if the partner is just looking for sex/a fuck as they may only be looking just for sex as have cuddles at home. But I would think most women would be up for it considering as they are more in tune emotionally in my humble opinion  |
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"Isn't that called being in a Relationship?
I mean on a regular basis yes. But couldn't you say the same about someone looking for sex ?
It may be difficult to replicate that if the partner is just looking for sex/a fuck as they may only be looking just for sex as have cuddles at home. But I would think most women would be up for it considering as they are more in tune emotionally in my humble opinion "
Agreed.
I just miss the intimacy of a relationship the most. I'm fine with being single but there the thing that I find I want. Just the bodyheat if someone else etc |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Isn't that called being in a Relationship?
I mean on a regular basis yes. But couldn't you say the same about someone looking for sex ?
It may be difficult to replicate that if the partner is just looking for sex/a fuck as they may only be looking just for sex as have cuddles at home. But I would think most women would be up for it considering as they are more in tune emotionally in my humble opinion
Agreed.
I just miss the intimacy of a relationship the most. I'm fine with being single but there the thing that I find I want. Just the bodyheat if someone else etc "
I get that. It's the affection I miss most about being single. I've actually just booked a session with a cuddle therapist to see how it goes. |
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