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Why does nobody read messages
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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It's worse when they message you first and you reply they just leave you on read. Then send the exact same message they sent first, a few months later. And people say if they don't reply it means they're not interested. But interested enough to message first a couple times |
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Why do people think they deserve a reply
Firstly you don't.
Secondly You can see the first couple of lines of the message and quite often it's clear it's not for Mez they haven't ready my profiles or it's a copy and paste message. |
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Unfortunately in a lot of cases people just look at the pictures and dive straight into the messages without reading the profile first . If they did they would see that they aren’t of interest and as nice as it is to be polite there can be a lot of them so easier to ignore .
If people can’t be bothered to read the profile then they deserve to be ignored too . |
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"Hard to get a reply "
Read the FAQs, no reply means no thanks.
Quite simply it is usually because they do not want to meet you, but sadly couples know that the single guy will usually start either whining and asking why, or will start throwing abuse through rejection.
Just accept it and move in. |
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If I don't open/read a message, it's usually because I've checked your profile first and it is absolutely obvious that you are the opposite what I'm looking for and either have not read my profile at all or have read it and clearly chosen to ignore my preferences. x |
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On my singles profile & this, the 1st thing I do when I get a message is read the profile, if they sound good I'll reply if not I won't.
I personally wouldn't reply to yours there isn't much there.
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