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By *IERCEDCOCK71 OP   Man 15 weeks ago

BASINGSTOKE

What’s required apart from finding a couple who are looking for one?

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By *ister_EMan 15 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Understanding the psychology behind cuckold relationships is a starting point sex is only a small (Though rather important) part of cuckolding.

Good listening and observational skills are vital. You need to understand what motivates and drives your prospective couple and what cuckolding means to them.

Also you always need to respect their relationship and boundries and never step outside of your agreed role in their lives.

Remember that you are a 'guest' in their relationship and that you are only there to add to it and not to take anything away, or come between them.

Lastly having a big willy will probably help a bit too

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By *drenaline rushMan 15 weeks ago

Burnley

It’s just not that simple there are many layers to this

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By *omRachCouple 15 weeks ago

Wirral


"Understanding the psychology behind cuckold relationships is a starting point sex is only a small (Though rather important) part of cuckolding.

Good listening and observational skills are vital. You need to understand what motivates and drives your prospective couple and what cuckolding means to them.

Also you always need to respect their relationship and boundries and never step outside of your agreed role in their lives.

Remember that you are a 'guest' in their relationship and that you are only there to add to it and not to take anything away, or come between them.

Lastly having a big willy will probably help a bit too"

I'm the husband to a hotwife - this is a great answer to the OP's opening comment.

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By *ilva69Man 15 weeks ago

stockport

Understanding a couples need for a guy consistency ,stay hard, perform reasonably flexible time & logistics

The psychology part of accepting another guy

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By *tticusukMan 15 weeks ago

Formby


"What’s required apart from finding a couple who are looking for one?"

One does simply not just become a bull. This isn’t cos play.

It’s an innate presence. It’s being strong and powerful, being able to hold and control strength and power, but most of all it’s about respect!

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By *luebell888Woman 15 weeks ago

Lanzarote


"What’s required apart from finding a couple who are looking for one?

One does simply not just become a bull. This isn’t cos play.

It’s an innate presence. It’s being strong and powerful, being able to hold and control strength and power, but most of all it’s about respect!"

Is that not just the same as any man would be expected to behave?.

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By *tticusukMan 15 weeks ago

Formby


"What’s required apart from finding a couple who are looking for one?

One does simply not just become a bull. This isn’t cos play.

It’s an innate presence. It’s being strong and powerful, being able to hold and control strength and power, but most of all it’s about respect!

Is that not just the same as any man would be expected to behave?."

Ask a cuck

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By *pringbok95Couple 15 weeks ago

Limavady


"Understanding the psychology behind cuckold relationships is a starting point sex is only a small (Though rather important) part of cuckolding.

Good listening and observational skills are vital. You need to understand what motivates and drives your prospective couple and what cuckolding means to them.

Also you always need to respect their relationship and boundries and never step outside of your agreed role in their lives.

Remember that you are a 'guest' in their relationship and that you are only there to add to it and not to take anything away, or come between them.

Lastly having a big willy will probably help a bit too"

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By *oxy jWoman 15 weeks ago

somerset

just be aware if you decide to tag your self as a bull that several cuckold / hotwife couples wont be interested as the bull tag has been ruined by many many guys ... i look for respectful assertive guys that way i avoid the bullshite ..

just our opinion from a real lifestyle cuckold couple on the scene 30 ++ years

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By *mf123Man 15 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Horns lots of bulk grumpy at the sight of red and a nose ring

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By *estFkMan 15 weeks ago

Enfield

In my opinion, the label is quite poor and misleading. I've read in the answers that it's about being Strong and powerful for example and couldn't disagree more.

As a general picture, there's stag/vixen couples and there's cuckold couples but unfortunately that doesn't paint the full picture as there are infinite grey areas. Every couple is diferent and they will have different needs, fantasies and dynamics.

So I think it's about knowing your place (you're an extra, you're supposed to add something and you're a sex toy equivalent )

Be sensitive and intuitive (to read the room properly) even if you are in a more dominant role.

And please the couple

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By *tticusukMan 15 weeks ago

Formby


"In my opinion, the label is quite poor and misleading. I've read in the answers that it's about being Strong and powerful for example and couldn't disagree more.

As a general picture, there's stag/vixen couples and there's cuckold couples but unfortunately that doesn't paint the full picture as there are infinite grey areas. Every couple is diferent and they will have different needs, fantasies and dynamics.

So I think it's about knowing your place (you're an extra, you're supposed to add something and you're a sex toy equivalent )

Be sensitive and intuitive (to read the room properly) even if you are in a more dominant role.

And please the couple "

A sex toy equivalent? Yet disagree with being strong and powerful? Or another way of writing that is being assertive physically and mentally is absolutely the original meaning and definition of a bull.

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By *ickashABCMan 15 weeks ago

Reigate

Well said xx

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By *outhlondondudeMan 15 weeks ago

london


"Understanding the psychology behind cuckold relationships is a starting point sex is only a small (Though rather important) part of cuckolding.

Good listening and observational skills are vital. You need to understand what motivates and drives your prospective couple and what cuckolding means to them.

Also you always need to respect their relationship and boundries and never step outside of your agreed role in their lives.

Remember that you are a 'guest' in their relationship and that you are only there to add to it and not to take anything away, or come between them.

Lastly having a big willy will probably help a bit too"

Brilliant and complete.

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