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By *ayx OP Woman 15 weeks ago
brentwood |
I went dogging tonight and it was good to see a lot of people there having fun or looking for fun.
The problem I have is why do people literally follow people around when they aren't invited?
Tonight we had a fella approach uninvited so we said no thank you and he walked away but continued to follow us and then another older man popped up from behind our car, which was extremely creepy.
Has the etiquette been forgotten? |
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Shame there isn't a notice board in dogging areas reminding people to be courteous. A bit like those trekking boards that say you are here.
Seriously it is a bit of a wild and wooly free for all sometimes.
Just be thankful you didn't bump into a relative.
There need to be more dogging stewards controlling the situation.
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By *nobyMan 15 weeks ago
Dorchester |
Agreed. More people know about it via the internet ( porn) and know about the meets . But lots of new people have no history of it and know very little about how it works in reality. In the past it was more word of mouth and people in the know, so most people knew the ‘rules’. |
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"I went dogging tonight and it was good to see a lot of people there having fun or looking for fun.
The problem I have is why do people literally follow people around when they aren't invited?
Tonight we had a fella approach uninvited so we said no thank you and he walked away but continued to follow us and then another older man popped up from behind our car, which was extremely creepy.
Has the etiquette been forgotten? "
Unfortunately it's been that way for a little while. There's an element of new doggers who have very little idea of how to behave around a couple. Some think that just because there's a couple present at a site that it's a free for all. End of the day, you the couple are in charge and we need to respect that. |
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