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Going from soft to full, any advice?

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By *ayleynBen OP Couple 9 weeks ago

Accrington

Hi all,

We are thinking about going the full swap route from only doing soft. Any advice?

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By *in and bare itCouple 9 weeks ago

kent

Enjoy and don’t take anything to serious

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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago

taunton somerset

"Hi all,

We are thinking about going the full swap route from only doing soft. Any advice?"

stick to your rules at all times

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By *ayleynBen OP Couple 9 weeks ago

Accrington

Thanks guys, would you say the longer you leave it the more nerve wracking it gets?

Kinda thinking to just crack on and try it before it becomes a "thing"

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By *icecouple561Couple 9 weeks ago
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East Sussex

"Thanks guys, would you say the longer you leave it the more nerve wracking it gets?

Kinda thinking to just crack on and try it before it becomes a "thing""

Yeah I'd say do that. As long as you're confident that no matter how you feel afterwards neither of you will blame the other and that if one of you doesn't want to do it again it's not a problem for both.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 9 weeks ago

wonderland.

Don't plan for anything would be my advice.. if you are ready to take that step... know what boundaries you will have but don't go expecting or planning for it to happen that time..

Let it happen at you're speed. Have a safe word too... that means that if it's getting to much either of you can use it and you can stop and regroup and talk x

Remember that it may or may not be for you...

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple 9 weeks ago

Scarborogh

As above really.

Soft play is now in your ‘Comfort zone’. ‘Full swap’ is your adventure zone.

What would be your boundaries to the ‘danger zone’. What do you not want to do (yet)? Agree what these will be beforehand so that you can both guide others away from this. This will help you both enjoy the experience.

There is no time limit on fun, just enjoy the opportunities when they arise (pun intended! 😂)

Mrs SW

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