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Who is openly cheating?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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How many are on fab that can admit to cheating on their significant other?
Not those who are playing away and their partners knows, but those who are secretive about it.
I understand those who will not admit this, but I can see many profiles popping up from women saying hubby doesn’t know. Maybe make yourself aware. Or those who prefer married men/women make yourself aware.
P.s if you are not cheating I understand why you may comment, but please do not pass judgement, just ignore the post. |
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"I am partial to a married man occasionally, most can't host though...x
What is it about a married man that makes you partial? X"
They're scared he might want a relationship. Like that would stop it lol  |
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By *ebbie69Couple 13 weeks ago
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"How many are on fab that can admit to cheating on their significant other?
Not those who are playing away and their partners knows, but those who are secretive about it.
I understand those who will not admit this, but I can see many profiles popping up from women saying hubby doesn’t know. Maybe make yourself aware. Or those who prefer married men/women make yourself aware.
P.s if you are not cheating I understand why you may comment, but please do not pass judgement, just ignore the post. "
This is something I let people know very soon after starting to chat as I know it's a red line for many and want others to know the situation. If meeting just a guy (mostly seek couples only) I also actually prefer married ones. Not only is it a kink of mine but actually find them more reliable, though that may just be coincidence |
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By *ister_EMan 13 weeks ago
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No point lying about it. People aren't stupid and will figure it out quickly enough. I know I miss out on meetings because I'm cheating. But I'd rather just get it out there and save drama and accusations later. |
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"How many are on fab that can admit to cheating on their significant other?
Not those who are playing away and their partners knows, but those who are secretive about it.
I understand those who will not admit this, but I can see many profiles popping up from women saying hubby doesn’t know. Maybe make yourself aware. Or those who prefer married men/women make yourself aware.
P.s if you are not cheating I understand why you may comment, but please do not pass judgement, just ignore the post. "
...are you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"How many are on fab that can admit to cheating on their significant other?
Not those who are playing away and their partners knows, but those who are secretive about it.
I understand those who will not admit this, but I can see many profiles popping up from women saying hubby doesn’t know. Maybe make yourself aware. Or those who prefer married men/women make yourself aware.
P.s if you are not cheating I understand why you may comment, but please do not pass judgement, just ignore the post. ...are you?"
Yes, I’ve only had one meet. This was on an old account as I sometimes get rid of it thinking what am I doing, then get one back up again randomly when feeling an urge to |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Im not because being a married man an honest about it in my profile I get zero response therefore cant cheat 🙄🤣.
We are quickly judged without anyone knowing the situation your in 🤷🏻♂️ |
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I’ve always made it quite clear both on my profile and in any initial contact I make. Given that it invariably affects when and where I am able to meet, I don’t see any point trying to hide the fact. It also means I’m not wasting anyone’s time for whom meeting attached guys is a no-no for them. |
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We tend to prefer married partners. For a number of reasons, one is that we find they are less clingy, more reliable within their limits, more understanding of our personal lives, and they are often cleaner and understand the married dynamic better.
Not to mention that we meet older people, so most are married or have been very recently.
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One last thing is that single guys (in particular) are always pestering us to meet now, this afternoon, tomorrow, at the weekend, Tuesday morning, at their hotel while they're on business, in their car, on their lunch break... And have no sense that we don't meet someone every time a free 5 minutes comes up.
it's exhausting! |
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"One last thing is that single guys (in particular) are always pestering us to meet now, this afternoon, tomorrow, at the weekend, Tuesday morning, at their hotel while they're on business, in their car, on their lunch break... And have no sense that we don't meet someone every time a free 5 minutes comes up.
it's exhausting! "
This is spot on |
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"We tend to prefer married partners. For a number of reasons, one is that we find they are less clingy, more reliable within their limits, more understanding of our personal lives, and they are often cleaner and understand the married dynamic better.
Not to mention that we meet older people, so most are married or have been very recently.
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Good point |
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My wife doesn't know. I've had the pleasure of five long-ish relationships with other women - three of them married and one with a boyfriend. Their partners were also unaware. Some people will say it's wrong, but everyone's different. |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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I had a meeting at a hotel this morning and ended up helping ourselves to a breakfast from the buffet. I've just asked to settle the bill and they haven't added the breakfast...
I'm not going to say anything!  |
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I'm honest on my profile about my dishonestly!
As someone else said it saves time of those who definitely don't want to meet / interact.
Discussion with wife about 'taking the next step' from fantasising about 3, 4sums and her attending a club are on-going and I know I'm naughty, selfish for going to bi days at Northwich sauna without her knowledge, consent.
Judgey Judgersons can fook off I'm not concerned what they think
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I have a bit of a kink for cheating. I’m single but a married lady drives me wild, it doesn’t matter what they look like or how they are, but once they say I’m married I’m a moth to a flame.
However, I was meeting with a lady, that said she was single, however turned out she was married. This really put me off her, but time and haven’t met her again. It sounds ironic, but if she told me from the start she was married I would have been all over her, but as she kept it away, it’s just a massive turn off.
I’d never judge, and one one else should, but if you are cheating, and are married put it in your profile, don’t force someone to be involved in your secrets when they don’t want too be.
I actually believe you will have more success being honest. |
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