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couples how do you deal with the guys/women who step over the line emotionally

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By *oxy j OP Woman 3 weeks ago

somerset

couples how do you deal with the guys/woman who step over the line emotionally ...

been hearing it more n more of late guys getting emotionally attached when its not wanted so couples how do you deal with it..

the question has been asked by friends who are finding its happening more and more so just thought id ask ..

me its simple i alway draw a line in the sand any think that goes further than friendly fun is shut down and never meet again i get stone cold when other guys/women try it but for me at least its very rare ..

i know we are all different and i also know there are couples who encourage it this is not about right or wrong

the question is aimed at couples because that for some is trouble brewing im not interested is singles as thats a totally different ball game and its not disturbing/or helping a relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple 3 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Firstly I'll say that feelings are ok. If someone showed signs of becoming too emotionally attached we would just tell them we wouldn't be meeting again.

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By *inks_apeyCouple 3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yeah agreed, if there was anything that verges over the line towards attachment, then polite no thanks any more would be communicated

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 3 weeks ago

Stoke

Never had anyone get attached, if they did they'd be ghosted! We're a couple, we've no room for that shit.

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By *aomilatteCouple 3 weeks ago

Midlands

We'd cut contact and not arrange to see them again. It seems quite common amongst swingers, one of a couple trying to hook up secretly with one of the other couple. So many seem to split up

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 3 weeks ago

wonderland.

As a couple we have yet to experience it... both of us have experience it as singles.

How I dealt with it was to not see them again. I ended up applying a 3 meet rule.. and I stopped meeting 121 because of guys that developed feelings.

As a couple I think we would do the same. We have already got boundaries in place that we don't tend to do repeat intimate meets or if we do its well spaced out.. will play in group situations with people more than once.

Cali

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