As we are reaching the end of Locktober I would like to know…
Are there any females who love being kept in chastity?
This is something I enjoy a lot, but don’t currently have a female playmate who enjoys it. |
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My other half is in pretty much permeant chastity at the moment (well, as perm as real life allows!).
She is currently on day 63 with an unknown end date. Though she does have a list of things that will allow her out of it and to have an orgasm but so far she hasn't managed to complete any of that. |
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"My other half is in pretty much permeant chastity at the moment (well, as perm as real life allows!).
She is currently on day 63 with an unknown end date. Though she does have a list of things that will allow her out of it and to have an orgasm but so far she hasn't managed to complete any of that."
I absolutely love your photo from the 25th of August.
May I ask what she enjoys most about being kept in chastity please?
I would also love to know what the list of things are that might allow her an orgasm.
I have never met a lady who would even consider being locked in chastity on a near permanent basis, I have only ever played with short term chastity, never longer than a week.
I would dearly love to meet someone who would enjoy being locked over a longer duration, although maybe not on a permanent basis.
And I can I just say I have a huge amount of admiration and respect for your wife making it to day 63. She is an amazing lady! 🥰 |
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"I absolutely love your photo from the 25th of August.
May I ask what she enjoys most about being kept in chastity please?
I would also love to know what the list of things are that might allow her an orgasm.
I have never met a lady who would even consider being locked in chastity on a near permanent basis, I have only ever played with short term chastity, never longer than a week.
I would dearly love to meet someone who would enjoy being locked over a longer duration, although maybe not on a permanent basis.
And I can I just say I have a huge amount of admiration and respect for your wife making it to day 63. She is an amazing lady! 🥰"
Ha thanks, that pic was taken on day 1!
There's a lot for her, she loves how it intensifies her neediness, horniness and general servitude. It keeps her mind on me and being the best she can be, and again the horny feeling, it really does turn her in to a big mindless drippy mess. As she is a big fan of humiliation and degradation, she loves these feelings and what she is willing to do for a bit of release and edging.
Well one thing that will allow her an orgasm is meeting a Domme and giving herself to her for the night, be it 1-1 or in a 3/4 group setting. If she was to be the centre of a group as well, this would allow her to have an orgasm too as she is there to please not be pleased. She can also earn time off by 'good girl' behaviour, these are more for fun and I can call these at any time.
Of course when we say permanent that is within the context of real life, for example she can't wear the belt to work, she also needs hygiene breaks and certain family things we attend she can't be wearing it.
Thank you again lol she has done longer, her longest so far being 150 days. She was finally allowed release that time when we had a 3 some with a gorgeous lady. It will be fun either way for me, if she earns the orgasm or not  |
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This is exactly the kind of dynamic I would like.
I have found with my playmates that after too long in chastity it has a negative impact on their sex drive, which obviously is the exact opposite of what I want to achieve, even when I edge and tease them it does very little to bring back that raging horn and desperation I want them to experience.
I need to find a way to stop them going off the boil after a certain duration. The one thing that did work quite well was sending her videos of me with another playmate, then making her clean another playmates mess off my cock, but I don’t have any playmates I have unprotected sex with currently so that’s not an option.
Also none of my playmates are massively into this, it’s just a bit of fun to spice up our weekends of play.
Maybe fab just isn’t the place to find someone who is very much into it. 🤷♂️ |
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"This is exactly the kind of dynamic I would like.
I have found with my playmates that after too long in chastity it has a negative impact on their sex drive, which obviously is the exact opposite of what I want to achieve, even when I edge and tease them it does very little to bring back that raging horn and desperation I want them to experience.
I need to find a way to stop them going off the boil after a certain duration. The one thing that did work quite well was sending her videos of me with another playmate, then making her clean another playmates mess off my cock, but I don’t have any playmates I have unprotected sex with currently so that’s not an option.
Also none of my playmates are massively into this, it’s just a bit of fun to spice up our weekends of play.
Maybe fab just isn’t the place to find someone who is very much into it. 🤷♂️"
So one of our rules to help with 'going off the boil' is a porn rule, her usual social media time was replaced with porn consumption, on her phone, playing on the TV when we could, of course lots of edging. Taking the belt off and leaving her on the fucking machine on slow settings for a lengthy amount of time before been belted back up just as she was getting that cumming feeling. She was also getting fucked in between that because, well I still need a release lol but then the belt would be back on before she can finish. She really enjoys erotica too so she had reading targets set to keep her mind on it.
Fab really isn't the place for it no, we have spoken to 2 other couples who indulge in it but much better on that fetish lifestyle type website! |
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I have joined a few groups on FL that are dedicated to female chastity and cuck cakes/queens. But there is no locals on them unfortunately.
It sounds like you have found a perfect mix to make this work for you both, which is very encouraging. So sounds like it’s more about the orgasm control rather than the actual chastity, the chastity device being a way to emphasise the control. I have always used the chastity device to ensure there is no touching and certainly no penetration. As you say I still need a release, so have other playmates for penetration if that is required. This is very interesting and maybe something that should be more a part of our chastity play. |
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"I have joined a few groups on FL that are dedicated to female chastity and cuck cakes/queens. But there is no locals on them unfortunately.
It sounds like you have found a perfect mix to make this work for you both, which is very encouraging. So sounds like it’s more about the orgasm control rather than the actual chastity, the chastity device being a way to emphasise the control. I have always used the chastity device to ensure there is no touching and certainly no penetration. As you say I still need a release, so have other playmates for penetration if that is required. This is very interesting and maybe something that should be more a part of our chastity play. "
Yes and no to the denial/chastity. Like you said the problem with all out chastity and no touch is why they are losing their drive. Like anything given enough time you learn to live without it so we wouldn't recommend going down that route. I have had male cucks in chastity for me before and they are very different, can go months with no touch, no edges and don't lose the horn but us men are much simpler creatures so can't approach it the same way for example.
We still say she is in chastity and not just denied, she isn't getting any pleasure from it, she isn't getting penetration when alone, and she certainly can't edge without me removing the belt. |
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