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Hotlist - would you want to know ?
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I would love to know......I got a message from someone recently who said he had had me on his hotlist for ages...I was thrilled as he is gawguss...
Met him Saturday for a social and it has potential!!!
Good old hotlist... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if it was an option to be able to see who had added you I would probably look cause im nosey but im not that bothered, personally I think if you could see who had added you less people would use it, most like the idea its private |
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It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would look who's I was on if it was an option but also I wouldn't use it if that was an option.
We use our hotlist for when one of us is browsing and likes the look of a profile so the other can take a peek at their discretion.
If I wanted some one to see that i think their hot but can't be arsed to message id wink them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.
Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I am nosey hence I have the looked at me function, but to be honest, it's not really good news if you are on mine! Well, 50/50 really some I just like to see what their latest status message is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course if you could see who had you hotlist'ed, No one would ever go onto mine and I'd stop using it 
so would you rather know, and be on none
or not know and possibly be on some? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you was on someones hotlist and you knew what would you do?
would you mail them or just assum they arnt interested as they havnt mailed you? would it actually benefit you knowing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id love to know i think it would help identify mutual attraction"
not always I add abusive guys to my hotlist and add a note to their profile so I remember them and what they have said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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isnt the point of adding your fav peeps to your hotlist. and then trying to chat them up. i use the hotlist to remind me of people i so want to meet if they say no then i take them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"isnt the point of adding your fav peeps to your hotlist. and then trying to chat them up. i use the hotlist to remind me of people i so want to meet if they say no then i take them off"
no, the idea of the hotlist is to find people you like easy and perv their pics without them knowing lol |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx "
Haha and me 
Doesn't bother me if I am on a hot list or not. If they are going to make contact they will hit the message button. If they are not going to do that, it's pretty irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would depend why you were on the hotlist cos they liked ya or cos they didnt want to know ya lol xxxxxx maybe its best not to know. got a few on mine who i think are right numpties and that and the notes mean i know i dont want to bother with them lol |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"I use the hotlist to keep an eye on men who I am not quite ready to friend request. "
+ 1....more often than not i tell the guys who in general accept graciously why the Hotlist+not the friendlist(yet) 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, if we had this option we'd only get an influx of forum posts complaining that the same sex has them hotlisted, it's bad enough with the 'men look at my pics/profile and I'm straight ' posts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx
Haha and me
Doesn't bother me if I am on a hot list or not. If they are going to make contact they will hit the message button. If they are not going to do that, it's pretty irrelevant. "
Same here!
Maybe we need a hotlist for the perving material and a 'notlist' for the forum/status following? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is a good idea as long as each person has the ability to allow or not to allow them to see whom they have hot listed. I would not mind anyone seeing if I have them on my hot list. I would hope the ladies would be please and not offended that I had hot listed her.   |
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"Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.
Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful."
So wise and yet so young |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.
Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful.
So wise and yet so young "
We agree, there is another site that we use that does this and it's really good... xx |
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"Would love to know! I have to admit i do have a bad habit of hot listing people and never messaging them though . Mrs x"
Tell me about it. I do have people in my hotlist that I haven't messaged ever. That's cos they are too far away for me to actually meet and they stay on a for a while until I delete. Pointless exercise, I know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"
Not really I am more bothered in who I am interested in with what little spare time I have here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to know to be honest.. spoils the fun and intrigued.. Similar to an earlier comment I had a couple contact me recently who stated they had been tracking me through their hotlist and finally decided to take the plunge... six months they had been monitoring me!!
I follow people out of interest as some peoples status updates make me smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id love to know i think it would help identify mutual attraction
not always I add abusive guys to my hotlist and add a note to their profile so I remember them and what they have said "
Thats a clever way of using it actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive just browsed 8 pages of local guys, found one and put him on my hotlist, now see why its best as a private thing, but think he is a site supporter so he will know I looked anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if it was an option to be able to see who had added you I would probably look cause im nosey but im not that bothered, personally I think if you could see who had added you less people would use it, most like the idea its private"
Agree 100%
Been on for years dear! |
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