I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?
Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username |
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By *ante40Man 15 weeks ago
Moving around |
"I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?
Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username "
sadly it's everywhere online I would try to ignore it, you can't win online I have had messages saying I'm too skinny so either way someone will always have a problem it's no fault of yours |
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Heart goes out to you OP. We can’t stand bullies and like what has just been said by our dearest mod. The tossers won’t be without their own faults and without coming across as mean…. You’ve gotta toughen up and brush it off, as this place can be absolutely vile….. the elitism is insane |
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"I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?
Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username "
They do it to make themselves feel better. I know it is not easy to OP, but ignore them. Do what pleases you and sod everyone else  |
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Says more about them if they have time and forethought to be nasty to someone else.
It reminds me of when I said hello to a couple on here and the guy messaged me back saying "hairy and a tiny cock no thanks twat" 😂 looked on their profile and he had a smaller cock than me! No need to be rude to people when it's much easier to say nothing at all. It's good you didn't say anything back as it's no good getting dragged into someones negative world. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Like a number of people on here have said some absolutely vile creatures on here ! Supposed to be an adult site and all looking for fun in different ways. Don’t let them bother you fella 👍 |
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This place is full of vile people but it is also full of normal people who dont judge. Please dont let 1 persons ignorance stop you from being you.
I(mrs) have had to deal with it myself on a few occasions. It is hurtful but these people dont even deserve to breath the same air.
Keep being you, keep posting your pics and keep being awesome 
(Mrs) x
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By *ittynzWoman 15 weeks ago
Richmond |
Sorry key board trolls made you feel like you had to take it down Don’t post a shit load more!! Be proud of your body and fuxk everyone one who it isn’t for they’re not for you, move on to the next xx |
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"People enjoy insulting others for how they look. God knows why because I doubt they're movie star material.
It's shocking that anyone feels it's an ok thing to do"
Exactly that, I’m sure the number of their scales when they stand on it isn’t the same as a pro athlete at the same age or looks like a male or female model.
But then again…. Some on here act have the ego of someone who’s on billboards |
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Sorry this happened to you. I don't understand the people of the world who can't just scroll passed something that's not for them. Post whatever you're comfortable with! It's gonna be someone's cuppa tea, we can't all be for everyone  |
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If you wanted to you can do something about being fat. It would cost whoever insulted you a lot of money for being so ugly.
My wife is fat and I love her.
Don't worry about pathetic comments like that. |
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"Sorry this happened to you. I don't understand the people of the world who can't just scroll passed something that's not for them. Post whatever you're comfortable with! It's gonna be someone's cuppa tea, we can't all be for everyone "
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We've had some awful messages in the past.
Hope these people realise we are regular club goers and one day we will see them! Could be awkward for them lol.
Judgemental whatsimicallits everywhere in the world. Concentrate and you and the people worth your time, nothing else really matters!
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What the hell does it matter what you like, irrespective of your size, colour or creed, as long as your happy that's all that matters, and if your not someone's cup of tea, they should really just say "no thanks" or "sorry not for us", no need for explanations |
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By *wiggy2112Woman 9 weeks ago
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I like a curvy man ...but due to some people being horrible guys don't often put curvy and now class themselves as Dad bod...
I'm fabulous and I get my fair share of fat shaming ..just report and block .... |
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Weight loss is more about how much you eat than the amount of exercise you do. Most people who are overweight choose to be. Fat shaming, which I agree is bad, unfortunately is a consequence of this decision. |
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"Weight loss is more about how much you eat than the amount of exercise you do. Most people who are overweight choose to be. Fat shaming, which I agree is bad, unfortunately is a consequence of this decision."
Well that might be the single most uneducated answer I’ve seen on fab. Even if you were correct (which you’re not - let me know if you want the peer reviewed papers to back that up), the very idea that fat shaming is a consequence of someone’s decision is abhorrent.
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"I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?
Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username "
It’s a shame you took it down. If people don’t like your pics they are free to not look at them. Your weight/body shape does not determine your attractiveness |
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hope your OK buddy f..k the haters you do you 
