This is probably a topic that's been discussed before, however if I could do this as a poll I would.
Is it true that a majority of women lose interest in sex after a while in relationships. I know the menopause can drop a ladies sex drive, however other than this do you women lose interest |
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I find i will lose interest if it becomes routined and the same repetitive actions, I need to switch things up, luckily me and my husband have a very varied sex life.
Many women also have the house, children & work which can make feeling sexy much harder when your mentally drained.
I think men overall get turned on much easier than women & forget that we need some mental stimulation too.
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I think men can be the same though, if sex is routine and planned then it tends to become boring, the more spontaneous sessions are much better.
I guess men can be more easily aroused, and have a much higher sex drive than women so it can become frustrating in that instance |
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By *uvery30Woman 4 weeks ago
Gloucestershire |
I go from highs to lows. Sometimes I can't get enough other times just not interested.
At present I can't get enough sex like I'm horny most of the time. Hubby can't keep up.thats why I needs extra friends  |
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By *sWyldWoman 4 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I'm single so maybe not best qualified to answer but if things aren't right in the bedroom, it's likely they aren't OK in the living room either. Stress, menopause, boredom, mental health, tiredness, not feeling wanted, desired or cared for. Feeling taken for granted by partner, family, lack of effort, medication, plus so many other factors can impact my desire for sex. |
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I have and have always had a stupidly high sex drive and I've found in alot of relationships the sex is unreal for the 1st 6-12 months but then it fizzles out to maybe once a month, plain boring sex. It drives me mad as that isn't enough for me |
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Personally, if my sex drive drops, it's usually because my needs aren't being met in other areas of the relationship.
I need physical contact and affection where you're not only touching me because you want to empty your sack.
And if I feel underappreciated, undervalued, or if the majority of the mental load, housework, and childcare is being left to me and you're not picking up after yourself and contributing, than you're not going to get laid.
Simplez. |
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