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I think it's probably easier for *some* single women and couples looking for single men. That's down to ratios of single guys to the rest of the site and the perceived attractiveness of the women and couples.
There are still a lot of us for who meeting is not straightforward |
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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago
somerset |
its just as hard as a couple/woman simply because of attraction just because there are a zillion guy ill not be interested in 99.99% ...as im picky ..
also i dont put all my eggs in one basket and have a few regulars so i p-lay very regular and most of the time dont need fab at all |
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It’s proving to be harder and harder to get meets as a single guy.
Been on and off for around 15 years and it’s the hardest it’s been.
Lots of people now using the site to get people to go to their other platforms. |
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I've only been a man so I can't say what it's like for others, but I wouldn't say it's hard, more that it just requires patience to find the right someone. If you're expecting to constantly be seeing new women and couples, you're probably going to find it tough here. However, if you don't expect much, make your profile as good as possible and just wait for the right opportunities, you'll be ok I think. |
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It should be easier for those who have the greatest range of choice of potential partners here, which is women or bi guys - assuming that they are all equally picky. Only a small minority of people will be mutually compatible and out of thousands of single men, it should be easier to find matches.
Of course, trawling through and filtering from thousands of people isn't easy work. Complicating the process, by needing to also limit the selection by tastes and preferences, makes it tougher. We're not simply looking for someone who visually appeals.
Perhaps those men who will have sex with men + potentially as well as others - when they largely are happy if they get the right cock (not finding men attractive, just enjoying satisfaction with a cock, by many accounts) have it best? There's a fair bit of cock going spare  |
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Not been here very long but for me it's the way someone approaches me with their first comment or their profile.
I have met a few lovely guys here but there are also ones who are very rude and spoil it for the good guys |
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"I think it's probably easier for *some* single women and couples looking for single men. That's down to ratios of single guys to the rest of the site and the perceived attractiveness of the women and couples.
There are still a lot of us for who meeting is not straightforward "
What are the ratios of single guys to rest of the site today? |
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Meets are easy to get for a couple however quality of meet is hard we havent had a fab meet for well over a year as everyone we connect with and like turn out to either go cold on us when it gets close to a meet or go weird on us  sadly the site is full of fantasists |
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"I think it's probably easier for *some* single women and couples looking for single men. That's down to ratios of single guys to the rest of the site and the perceived attractiveness of the women and couples.
There are still a lot of us for who meeting is not straightforward
What are the ratios of single guys to rest of the site today? "
Looking at who's near right now it's 3 men to 1 couple/woman |
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For couples it's incredibly hard.
Finding 4 people the actually like / are attracted to each other.
We have solo accounts and finding the right people, the phrase "needle in a haystack" comes to mind. |
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I think it depends who you are and what you are looking for.
There are some single guys that do ok and get meets easily but for the vast majority it is very hard.
Pretty much every couple struggles if they are looking for a couple to couple meet as the four way attraction is very rare.
Couples or single ladies looking for single ladies often struggle but they generally find it easier to find single guys. The downside is that most of them get swamped and finding the wheat from the chaff gets exhausting.
Bi guys looking for bi guys generally find it easy. |
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By * and BCouple 4 weeks ago
Durham |
We had a status up all week last week we were heading into Durham after 3pm Saturday and message us if you want to come say hi. We had not one message. So yes Fab is very difficult but then again we prefer clubs as that's a much better way of meeting people   |
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My wife plays separately on other sites, as is her choice. She has no trouble-in fact she doesn’t really use sites anymore-she doesn’t need to. She has her own group of guys who she regularly meets.
Unfortunately as a single male, it is somewhat less straightforward for me. I am not a gym fit Adonis hung like a horse but I don’t believe that this is the chief reason. Women have n this site have a huge amount of choice. They don’t want drama and they don’t want to be contorted on the back seat of a car. Not when they could be having uncomplicated fun in m a comfortable bed. My situation will always put me lower down the list as a woman with choice will be unwilling to make the compromises. I am not convinced that me going to clubs will change this. I am realistic about my chances here so I have plenty to do with myself when my wife is off having her fun. We ensure we make time for each other. |
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