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question for the club going couples ....
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By *oxy j OP Woman 5 weeks ago
somerset |
so a question for all club going couples why do you go to clubs ? and whos your main targets other couples ?? women?? or men?? just one or two or all three ... i know its always a good social too that applies to all of us i think... so whos you target play wise ... j
me/us i use to have a open mind for what ever happens as long as sexual attraction but slowly got put off of couples due to the male halfs entitlement and then single women aqs they tend to drink and some d*unk so about 20 tears ago we stopped playing with them in clubs ...
i/we do meet couples & women often via those we already know and private parties
the last 20 years clubs for me is about guys to get to know.. again if the sexual attraction is there and to take phone numbers to arrange meets away from clubs but then as we are a lifestyle cuckold couple that does make sense because as a cuck he does not play at all ...
so couples who do you go to clubs to meet ???? |
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We have given up on meeting people there, the clientele is often too random. 50 odd visits, on;y hooked up twice.
So we go with zero expectation as some have equipment we dont have at home, and the voyeuristic element is a turn on. |
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So, we’ve only been to a club once. We are mew to all this.
But we fucking loved the atmosphere.
Meeting people for no strings group sex is our thing. The club appears to be a safe place to do that.
We don’t want to date people. We don’t want to have to maintain relationships, we don’t want FWB. We just want some kinky sex once in awhile in a safe environment.
And even if we never fuck anyone else,that one trip super charged our sex life, and we want to keep that going.
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Not sure if you mean a specific club or clubs in general.
We have one in particular that this year we have rediscovered and really enjoy going to. For us its simply a fun night out where we get to meet like minded people have enjoy ourselves. If we meet another couple etc then thats a bonus. If we dont, then we are more than happy just being social and playing with each other. |
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We try not to go with any fixed expectations and we are open to meeting couples, the issue being that getting the necessary 4 way attraction can be quite difficult. So often we end up socialising with couples but playing mostly with single guys in a hotwife dynamic |
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We tend to go to club to use the equipment and let loose as we tend to enjoy the rougher side of sex and it’s hard to really let loose at home with kids.
We tend to only meet couples there if it’s pre arranged before hand. |
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"We go to use their dungeon facilities usually, or just a social evening out with (hopefully) like minded people.
Mr H"
Likewise, occaisionally my friend and I like to go on a couples night and use the Abfab dungeon. The dungeon is usually empty or near empty, we can then afterwards relax in a Jacuzzi. I have the equipment to play at home, but a swinging club dungeon makes for a BDSM night out where we there is no hanging around to get on a station or having to make way for others. Other advantages are not having to put on fetish gear and being able to have a jacuzzi afterwards. |
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We go to clubs because it's a great place to meet people and have a good night .You get to speak properly to people and see if they can hold a conversation and if there is an attraction to take things further .Sometimes there is sometimes not but you get to make new friends and have a fun night what ever .Appreciate this may not apply to everyone but for us it's better than one to one meets where the pressure is on to do something you have arranged. |
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We go with no expectations and if we do hook up then, we love the ‘no strings’ element where at the end of the night we walk away and go to our hotel room. The morning sex is always incredible after. |
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"We go to clubs because it's a great place to meet people and have a good night .You get to speak properly to people and see if they can hold a conversation and if there is an attraction to take things further .Sometimes there is sometimes not but you get to make new friends and have a fun night what ever .Appreciate this may not apply to everyone but for us it's better than one to one meets where the pressure is on to do something you have arranged."
And exactly this. |
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By *inkeDCouple 4 weeks ago
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We always go with no expectations of anything and are just as happy to play alone, if anything happens otherwise it's just an added bonus. We prefer clubs over private meets as if there's no connection each party can still go about their night and enjoy the club and other guests without feeling they've wasted the night with babysitters/hotels etc. |
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"We always go with no expectations of anything and are just as happy to play alone, if anything happens otherwise it's just an added bonus. We prefer clubs over private meets as if there's no connection each party can still go about their night and enjoy the club and other guests without feeling they've wasted the night with babysitters/hotels etc."
Absolutely couldn't agree more , what ever happens you get to meet new friends and sometimes the unexpected happens and that is an added bonus if it does . |
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We go full of hope and are usually then put off from the actions of others or our expectations are not met.
We go with the hope of completing a fantasy of several hot guys being given oral by C and them cumming over her but sometimes finding one guy is impossible.
Meeting a good looking couple or a hot female too.
Clubs are used in so many different ways by different people so finding exactly what you want is a lot harder.
K
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