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when in a swinging club do you ... answers from couples and women only please
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By *oxy j OP Woman 14 weeks ago
somerset |
so a question for couples and women only please
when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???
the question has come from another thread were some couples seem to be saying they just join in and let things happen and others say nope attraction is needed ... so question is which one are you play with who ever or must be attraction... this is aimed at couple who mainly play with other couples and women .... hence not needing guys to answer |
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Picky 💜
I generally won't play with anyone the first time I meet them unless there's a real intense spark.
Most playing I do at clubs is with existing partners and friends or people I've at least met a few times before socially 💜 |
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100% picky
Needs to be a few boxes ticked before we go and play. Physical and mental attraction, soft/full swap check, whilst we are not exchanging screening results we do like to get an idea of attitude to sexual health testing.
We have been in a 6 way before that ticked all the boxes. It grew to a 10 and we left because we weren’t into the new joiners |
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By *oxy j OP Woman 14 weeks ago
somerset |
i didnt leave my view ... im 100% picky no sexual attraction / same page then i dont play thats private/clubs/private parties i stick to the same no attraction no play
ive done gang bangs everyone hand picked the thought of someone i dont want or like would be a total turn off..
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I'd find it poor etiquette for someone to start playing with me or my partner without asking first, orgy or no orgy!. We need to have attraction and don't play with just anyone, even though we only play with unicorns we have turned a few lovely ladies down that weren't our cup of tea
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By *ornycougaWoman 14 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I always say yes or no, even when it's a greedy girl night and I want action, it's never a free for all.
Got to have standards."
What she said. I'm not dropping my standards just because I'm in a club. |
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"so a question for couples and women only please
when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???
the question has come from another thread were some couples seem to be saying they just join in and let things happen and others say nope attraction is needed ... so question is which one are you play with who ever or must be attraction... this is aimed at couple who mainly play with other couples and women .... hence not needing guys to answer"
We're picky, for a number of reasons. |
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It's very rare we actually play in clubs. We only look for bi couples which is hard to find anyway so we will meet friends their and find a locked room.
We did try a open room once with friends but their was nothing sexy about having random cocks waved in your face so that's definitely not for us. |
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"so a question for couples and women only please
when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???"
Is this even a serious question? Is anyone not picky? Interested to see who is happy for anyone to join in. |
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By *kmegoodWoman 14 weeks ago
bradford/ halifax |
I might be judged but I’m more open when I’m in the throes of a hot session I’m more likely to say yes to guys and girls I wouldn’t at other times For me at those moments it’s more I’d have to be put off by you rather than attracted to the person |
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"I might be judged but I’m more open when I’m in the throes of a hot session I’m more likely to say yes to guys and girls I wouldn’t at other times For me at those moments it’s more I’d have to be put off by you rather than attracted to the person"
i totally get that.. its the situation and the sexual high of the moment.
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"We are not very picky. But a minimum of attraction is required."
We don't do clubs very often but when we do we're similar to this. We are certainly less picky than we are normally. That's probably one of the reasons we would go, to let loose a bit |
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By *eyeYCouple 14 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Agreed with the above, we're exceedingly picky outside a club in terms of aesthetics, however that diminishes a little because character and humour is attractive too.
Has been moments were we'd have said no way otherwise, but that's been situational and in the midst of playing.. |
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Truthfully in a way kind of neither as we traditionally only use clubs as a venue for pre-arranged meets. It's been years since we "went stag" to a club so to speak.
To my recollection we have only on occasion ever ended up in a situation where people organically joined in, perhaps we are just not very appealing. It wasn't brilliant as what effectively happened is we met up randomly with a very friendly T-Girl, and during the play single males descended on mass, so I called a stop to it. |
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It depends, there are some more exhibitionist couples that just get on and play.
Other couples, like ourselves have particular tastes, for example Dee loves big cock, but there has to be some sort of attraction for her with the guy(s) she plays with. |
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