We were having a fun night in a local club and whilst we still had fun we did end up finishing early due to a few of the single men killing the mood
I figured they're probably not even aware that certain behaviours mean it's less likely they'll have any fun with couples so name the things that can kill your mood here.
Ours last night were
Not respecting the couples only room
Coming far too close without being invited and not immediately backing off when it's made clear we're not interested
And following a couple without initiating any conversation just following playing with yourself under the towel just don't do it guys |
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Single men are a problem in every sex club I visit. They have an unbridled sense of entitlement. Don't seem to know what 'no' means and a lot of the time, foreign. They must think it is an easy way to get laid. Which is probably where the entitled behaviour comes from. |
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We hear you.
We have had-
Someone repeatedly trying a locked door. Even had one booted un once.
Someone begging to join in and actually crying when i said no.
Outside of a couples room- a man turning to another and loudly saying things lime “i wish they would get on with it” like we were an exhibition for his sole benefit
And someone following us from the entrance door to the changing room and wanking before i’d even taken my coat off, whilst winking at me.
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Definitely some single men can be very off-putting. Our last club trip was marred by:
- Guys not taking the hint or no for an answer when trying to chat with us when we weren't interested
- Knocking on the private room door to try get us to open the blinds
- Coming in and out of the open room we were in and sitting right beside us without saying a thing while playing with their cocks.
Some men are grand in clubs and have a sense of respect but, in our experience, a lot just haven't got a clue!
Queue only going to couples/fems nights now! |
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I think some guys think they have a sense of right to play with whoever they want, whenever they want just because they’ve paid an entrance fee.
I’d always politely ask if it’s okay to play and respect the other persons wishes. |
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We once had a guy say who was I to tell him to leave a room after he came in uninvited and tried to get to the other side of the female glory hole. After a heated stand off he was soon dressed and sent packing. |
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We've tried to give out clear, unambiguous signals that mean no but have encountered multiple men who wilfully must ignore them. They must mean other people - unless they kill me, I'm not stopping - God only knows what's going on in their heads. Aan sat down but somehow managed to get as much of his body touching us as humanly possible.
Fingers and hands that appear from nowhere and make for genitals or breasts.
All of this whilst dead eyes stare, oblivious to the signals being given to go away. It's frightening the extent that some people will totally ignore any barriers and consume you as their prey |
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By *oxy jWoman 10 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
its not just single guys some of the guy there as couples are totally assholes too who hate the word no in fact in all my years of swingers club the guys that are part of couples are by far the worse ...
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There's a certain satisfaction in the club when we engage with a respectful single bloke having knocked back the ones that reached in without permission, the ones that got in our personal space without invite and especially the ones that tell others to "watch this" as they amble towards us ready for rejection.
But the other mood killer for us is the "over theatrical". Yep we like to be watched, but we're not gonna fake it to draw a crowd.  |
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We were playing on a big open bed in a club, behind bars but still in the open.
There was a line of guys watching.
The moment was completely ruined by one guy at the end who had dropped his trousers and was wanking off furiously while gurning at us both.
Total mood killer. |
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By *bcooljMan 10 weeks ago
Birmingham |
Some of these are wild!
I've never been to a club but wanking AT people is creep behaviour, same type of men that walk around with a hole in their pocket.
Makes me wanna start a sex club security business  |
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