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It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I’ve never not turned up to a meet and I also don’t understand why people mess around. |
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"Lots just like the thrill of the chase and get off over the thought of meeting.
To be fair, some women and couples are like that too "
Would seem so at the expense of somone elses time and preparation. They don't realise it's only becomes a chase when the other is running away. |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I am also fined more and more men just don't turn up or cancel at the very least minute. |
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Been on and off here a long time , Use to get replys to about 8 out of 10 messages.
Now your lucky if 1 out of 10 are even read . Lost in the bombardment of picture collectors an time wasters .
I was on here with my ex aswell, I've seen the sort of messages single men send at times  |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I can't get a meet for love nor money (not that I would pay) on here.
Yet I'm a regular at my local club and social events and do just fine. I seem to be quite popular acctually..
I know whats going on and ill say is, similar issues are plaguing dating apps right now.
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
Disappearing during message exchange or the day after is totally a thing.
My theory is that guys get d*unk and fantasise, and then either cum or look at it in the cold light of morning and go... nah... |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Hiya I’m here for anything fun, I’m part of a couple and yes the wife does know infact it was her idea for me to have an account, she loves the idea of me going off and getting sucked off etc then coming back and telling her about it whilst we fuck |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I’d say try going for older men ( I would say that!), I can’t imagine any of them would be stupid enough to miss out on meeting you, you’re gorgeous! |
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I think you can get a sense of who is legit and who will follow through with meetings if you converse a few times beforehand people. Especially men seem to get cold feet when they are supposed to meet especially if it’s a kinky request ?? |
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We had 2 on the same evening last week. 1 was chatting to us, right up to an hour before. The other, chatting that morning, then he never logged on again that day. We'd met 1 of them twice before.
Playtime is limited, and we probably turned down men that would of showed up. However, we always have fun between us, so all is not lost. Just their loss. |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
Most probably enjoy a good wank over the videos/photos on here and that's really all they want |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it?
Most probably enjoy a good wank over the videos/photos on here and that's really all they want"
This !!
I’ve had messages from ‘couples’ saying they are interested, having the wife meet solo, asking for pics or add to friends list yet they don’t have any photos or can’t send any and then ghost me when I suggest a social… fortunately I haven’t had any times when I’ve arranged a meet and they didn’t show up.. |
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i like to keep myself very busy with lots of sports and things but if i say i’m going to be there i will. i also try to keep updated on leaving and things so they can be happy genuine. nothing worse is there than getting excited and no show xx
wish these people wouldn’t waste time as think of all the extra sex everyone could of had ha xx |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
You will never see me complaining  |
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By *dd999Man 10 weeks ago
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I would have messaged you to arrange, but I fall outside your age range unfortunately  |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
It’s not only men |
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New on here and don’t seem to even get replies. It’s very difficult to put in a message what you think will grab attention, respectful and also what to say about myself. Any tips? Very hard to get started in this. I of course understand it may just be they are not interested and I’m completely respectful of that. |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
Morning OP I have very often wondered what goes through people's mind when they behave like that.
Unfortunately a large percentage of us male species is just looking for instant gratification, they are not looking at the motivation and reasons for other people being here. They either get want they want at that moment in time and then crack on with normal life or they just lose interest and don't bother again
But I would like to add that we are not all like that lol |
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I do think the no-shows,pic collectors and time wasters do put a lot of people off actually chatting to people
I myself have never not shown up or just ghosted anyone
I'm here to meet people and hopefully have lots of fun,but I do find it difficult actually getting meets |
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Genuine, divorced, looking to chat and meet, socially and sexually. That's what I'm about, but very rarely get a response from messages that are sent.
I was very fortunate to meet a cpl once, and would very much like too again.
Am certainly not up for just sleeping with everyone x |
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Like other comments to many fake profiles fake photos, pic collectors and people saying they are younger etc that spoil it for us genuine guys.
I only chat with people who have verifications myself as to many fake couple profiles as well
I have never let anyone down |
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"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "
I'm looking for a hotwife gf. I've had luck in the past, I mainly get one offs though would rather a regular thing both for sex and going out doing none sexual things |
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"Not had a no show from a guy yet, couples and ladies have flaked on us though.."
I 100% this..when I've planned parties with my mates. All the guys turned up and when he charged too they honoured it. Couples and ladies flaked most of the time or tried to swerve paying when wee were charging
One arrogant couple said we are going to the pub, come get us when the party starts as they were earlier than expected. Didn't even want to say hi to the guys. I told them to fuck off. |
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