Got a meet with someone on here.
We have spoken on the phone a few times and swapped text messages.
He's gone abit quiet over the last few days , no reason why this has happened.
He is not a paid member.
What's the chances he won't turn up?
I have my doubts about him. Sounds like he just wants to jack off.
Mr
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"Got a meet with someone on here.
We have spoken on the phone a few times and swapped text messages.
He's gone abit quiet over the last few days , no reason why this has happened.
He is not a paid member.
What's the chances he won't turn up?
I have my doubts about him. Sounds like he just wants to jack off.
Mr
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He must be crackers!!! Missing ou5 on you both is a crime! R |
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"Got a meet with someone on here.
We have spoken on the phone a few times and swapped text messages.
He's gone abit quiet over the last few days , no reason why this has happened.
He is not a paid member.
What's the chances he won't turn up?
I have my doubts about him. Sounds like he just wants to jack off.
Mr
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Maybe he is busy.. |
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"Got a meet with someone on here.
We have spoken on the phone a few times and swapped text messages.
He's gone abit quiet over the last few days , no reason why this has happened.
He is not a paid member.
What's the chances he won't turn up?
I have my doubts about him. Sounds like he just wants to jack off.
Mr
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He could be busy, but we personally wouldn't meet without better communication.
If he continues just address it with him prior to the meet. |
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Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo"
Completely agree! |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo"
He doesn't have WhatsApp just normal text so can't see if he has read the message.
Sent him 3 messages today and not 1 has been replied to.
Lack of communication is alarming |
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By *andSxxCouple 5 weeks ago
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo"
We also completely agree. Let it go. Find another one. |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo
He doesn't have WhatsApp just normal text so can't see if he has read the message.
Sent him 3 messages today and not 1 has been replied to.
Lack of communication is alarming"
He might be at work or with family? One text is enough, no need for more. Is he well verified? If he is there's a good chance he'll turn up, if not then not so much chance. |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo
He doesn't have WhatsApp just normal text so can't see if he has read the message.
Sent him 3 messages today and not 1 has been replied to.
Lack of communication is alarming
He might be at work or with family? One text is enough, no need for more. Is he well verified? If he is there's a good chance he'll turn up, if not then not so much chance."
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Seems like it's going to be a wasted day.
Should I just tell him I have doubts he is genuine and will turn up and cancel the social? |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo
He doesn't have WhatsApp just normal text so can't see if he has read the message.
Sent him 3 messages today and not 1 has been replied to.
Lack of communication is alarming
He might be at work or with family? One text is enough, no need for more. Is he well verified? If he is there's a good chance he'll turn up, if not then not so much chance.
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Seems like it's going to be a wasted day.
Should I just tell him I have doubts he is genuine and will turn up and cancel the social?"
That's your call. According to other threads people get an incredible number of no shows. If he doesn't turn up or tell you he's not coming add him to your block list. Maybe interact with people who judging by their verifications are more likely to turn up. |
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"Has he read your texts? If so and not replied that would be a big red flag to us. Ok, we might not expect a reply right that second but still.
If you have a bad gut feeling already I'd trust it.
C xoxo
He doesn't have WhatsApp just normal text so can't see if he has read the message.
Sent him 3 messages today and not 1 has been replied to.
Lack of communication is alarming
He might be at work or with family? One text is enough, no need for more. Is he well verified? If he is there's a good chance he'll turn up, if not then not so much chance.
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Seems like it's going to be a wasted day.
Should I just tell him I have doubts he is genuine and will turn up and cancel the social?
That's your call. According to other threads people get an incredible number of no shows. If he doesn't turn up or tell you he's not coming add him to your block list. Maybe interact with people who judging by their verifications are more likely to turn up."
Thanks, told Mrs if he doesn't turn up we will just go for a meal. |
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"If you haven't heard from him by Monday afternoon/evening then I would interpret it as a cancellation / potential no show / perceived ghosting. 🩶"
Thanks.
May leave it till tonight, gives us time to arrange another meet. |
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"I'd personally wait, maybe he has kids on a weekend/family time/work if he's not replied by the end of the day I'd assume it's not happening.
3 texts is more than enough.
Mrs "
Doesn't take long to reply to a text but know what you mean.
Feel this is a wild goose chase.
I have already told him the time and place of the social.
Good job we didn't give him our home address
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