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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Finally manage to arrange a meet with a male in his 40s (girlfriends) preference. Took a couple of weeks to arrange but it's finally happening. Nervous isn't the word. With specifically picked him tho because he's into bdsm and we have just started getting into that side of things to spice things up. The point of this thread is what's the is there
Inch difference beetween bdsm and bondage |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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well hes only going to be as hard as you let him, but if you dont trust him to take your word as red then I'd be doubtful of meeting him.
If its just pre meet nerves, everybody gets them so just enjoy it. BDSM is perfectly safe so long as theres a consunsual agreement as is with any meet.
Though most boundaries are there to be explored/pushed so just face it with a smile and see how it goes?
Its your meet as much as his, is what I'm saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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make sure u agree to a safe word with him that means stop when said, but first meet nerves may cum into play for sure my wife was nearly sick driving to our first meet, but went with it and was great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I've had meets before on my own before my girlfriend new I was on here. She caught me out and we made arrangement that if I let her play with another man then were almost equal. She wanted a interracial meet but I've persuaded her off the idea.....long story tho. We was going to set up a joint profile but she doesent want to be on here. I've told her you an set your pics to discreet but she just wants me to do all the arranging. If this meet doesent float her boat then im deleting this account, so fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?"
Where did he say he was going to have sex with the guy? Have posts been removed? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?
Where did he say he was going to have sex with the guy? Have posts been removed?"
no just there was an emphasis on the male "with girlfriends ppresent" .. hes not replied to my ask yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah right. He actually said it was his girlfriends preference so I took that to mean that she'd chosen the guy. Lets hope the OP reappears to clear things up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read it as he is going to be the 'seedy slut', that they've found a top/dom to use and abuse dave as he is just getting into bdsm & his gf is well, that I have no idea of, as I cant keep up with this mythical gf.
But as Dave is busy, I dont think he will be back to clear things up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read it as he is going to be the 'seedy slut', that they've found a top/dom to use and abuse dave as he is just getting into bdsm & his gf is well, that I have no idea of, as I cant keep up with this mythical gf.
But as Dave is busy, I dont think he will be back to clear things up "
Hey - give him a break!
He's off on a BDSM meet with his 'GF' !
He's probably just 'tied up' !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?"
No she's going to have sex with him if she feels at ease after a little foreplay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gotta be carefull with that bdsm stuff who remembers the tory mp who carked it with a orange shoved in his cakehole when the old autoerotic asphyxiation went pear shaped . |
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OP, have you not given thought that to others their perception of your adventures recently give the distinct impression that there may be a large element of fantasy going on..
fantasies are totally fine dont get me wrong but how one posts will usually influence how others reply..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the "seedy slut" reference.
I don't either. 
Cause it sounded better than " absolute bullshitter " "
You may have removed your vile quote but I've already reported you before I told you I reported you |
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