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One half of a couple can meet?
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One thing we see on here is sometimes where prehaps one half of a couple can meet, but not the other.
Doesn't bother us, it is what it is, life, work and all that. Some people, like ourselves, have very different schedules and getting time off together never mind time for meets/clubs etc can be hard.
Seemingly it gets some people's backs up on here, especially when they complain it always seems to be one half of a couple that's available to meet (the male, apparently...)
Does it bother you, or if you are one that complains, would you be complaining if it was the other half available? |
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In our experience, we have always found it is the male half of a couple that is always available to meet. Of course there are genuine couples with legitimate reasons like timings or childcare. However, men pretending to be a couple spoil the perception for the genuine folks. |
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We very rarely meet separately but it does happen because sometimes it's the only way we can manage personal lives.
It is more commonly the man, and the insinuation is that he's cheating. That makes it difficult and I also am suspicious.
But I do think there's often more to it, Mr pineapple is much more comfortable meeting alone than I am, purely because of safety. And then he can also get away with work more than I can, and he travels a lot.
So there are often many reasons why the male half can/would meet alone more than the female |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
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The main issue is that it seems to have been a common theme for some profiles where there may not ever have been a woman in the first place. So people are naturally dubious.
There are plenty of couples who play separately, but have individual solo profiles to do so, either in addition to, or instead of a couples profile.
And yes. I suspect there's few complaints when it's the woman meeting solo from a couples profile as opposed to the man. Unfair? Probably. But that's life. 🤷♂️
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It's very very common.
We always have a rule that the initial meet everyone must be present.
After that, we totally get that people's schedules can be busy and therefore can't always meet.
We just keep it equal.....I (Mr) wouldn't keep meeting the female half if the man was never available for my partner. We take it in turns, that's what works best for us.
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By *ab50Man 6 weeks ago
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So we're on as a couple but only Mr plays, this as our profile says is because Mrs can't and doesn't want to play due to disability, it's an open and honest situation which is why it's still a couples profile, honesty is the key.
Been a cussed I'd being fake, cheater, liar all of the above in the past, but surely being honest is the best policy all round.
I would agree there probably are fake profiles, liars and cheat, but to tar everybody with the same brush is very narrow minded. |
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By *lbtpjCouple 6 weeks ago
stoke on trent |
I understand life can be busy but if we are chatting to a couple we expect to meet the couple. Make a singles profile also if only one can meet. Just seems like single guys pretending they are a couple most of the time |
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For us it would depend on if we have met with you as a couple before and if we knew you. If we have never met then it's always going to be a no from us. But we don't play separately either, so you would never get one without the other. |
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Me and my partner BOTH play separately which we do so off our own individual profiles. We have our couples profile in which we look to make connections TOGETHER there… if one half of a couple is playing solo and the other isn’t then the one who is should be doing so off their own profile/account.
But then again we know why a male half of a couple isn’t going to do that now don’t we?… |
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Some couples do indeed meet separate (we've known some that have led to drama). However it's obvious many Men on couples profiles are trying to cheat. In local updates the old "who wants to meet my husband" never seems to work! Personally we wouldn't knowingly meet one half of a couple male or female, each to their own though. |
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To each their own, so long as they don't mind that we might only be interested in the "advertised product" so to speak.
If it's a couples profile we reserve the right to say we won't meet an individual from them without the other. Aside from anything else if it turns out there's skulduggery then the drama isn't worth it.
But, we also reserve the right to make that call on a case by case basis |
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It bothers people due to the amount of fakes who hide behind being a couple and always say only mr meeting this week.
It's often a male who is either now single or his partner isn't aware she's on fab.
I have no doubt lots of genuine couples have only one half meeting, I'm half of one. We do have a joint profile and seperate ones too & if anyone has any doubts they can speak to me to confirm it's all above board.
As usual it's a few profiles giving others a bad rep and woman meeting alone are never questioned or doubted. |
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I’m sure there are genuine couples that do meet separately…. however in my experience, it is almost always a cover for a single male. A simple discussion usually s them out.
I work on the premise of don’t trust until I have cause to!
R xx |
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There are genuine swinger couples in here with separate profiles for their individual meets, they’re easily spotted as they reference their couples profile in their solo profiles.
The chancers who are just a guy pretending to be a couple are easily figured out. Ask for a shared phone chat, a FaceTime call, or all of you to meet for a coffee somewhere.
Lots of couples talk the talk, very few are actually genuine. Due diligence is required for everyone in Fab…..   |
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We are on the lookout for a hot husband or a single guy.
Some, not all, of the guys that have contacted us from a couples account, don’t have that they play seperate on their profile and it has the feeling of they are either going to do it without her being aware or there is no Mrs at all.
It’s got to be with Mrs full blessing as it’s just the same as a ‘single guy’ on FAB in a relationship.
Honesty is one of the biggest factors on FAB for us and it’s fantastic when other people feel the same.
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Can be difficult for us to meet together due to childcare, and we won't host at home when the the kids are home, obviously (even if they are tucked up in bed asleep)
But Elle is always encouraged to meet guys 1:1 with Enn's blessing anyway. |
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I (Simon) am not a huge fan of clubs and parties, just not my thing. Tina on the other hand absolutely loves them, so she plays at clubs as a single and when meeting as a couple, we always play together. No judgement whatsoever and I usually hit the gym while she gets her own workout  |
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By *oxy jWoman 6 weeks ago
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theres a big section of fab couples who still cheat on each other even tho they swing ....ive had countless amounts of messages from one half and not wanting thier other half or mine to know ...
now to me a cheating swinger is the worse of the worse remember these relationships are suppose to be strong and heathy ... i also got approached alot in clubs from one half of couples to meet secretly ...
its the main reason i blocked couples on fab ... the alot of couples on here who have zero clue what one half is up to ...
nothing worse than a cheating swinger |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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It’s always a male, there was never any female involvement in the first place. Almost as annoying is when we ask for a fem to fem phone call with couples and you get the “she’s asleep at the moment” or “she’s at work”
Yeah? Well don’t be messaging on her behalf then, or admit the woman on your profile doesn’t even know she’s on here. |
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"theres a big section of fab couples who still cheat on each other even tho they swing ....ive had countless amounts of messages from one half and not wanting thier other half or mine to know ...
now to me a cheating swinger is the worse of the worse remember these relationships are suppose to be strong and heathy ... i also got approached alot in clubs from one half of couples to meet secretly ...
its the main reason i blocked couples on fab ... the alot of couples on here who have zero clue what one half is up to ...
nothing worse than a cheating swinger "
That's mental! |
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