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How "ballsey" are you to go on a blind social meet?
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It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.
Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?
It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it  |
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"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.
Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?
It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it "
Yes, done it a few times - two weren’t good, one was beyond amazing, others were amazing.
So, in general, it has worked out well. |
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"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.
Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?
There you go!
I have had similar. One where the conversation dried up before my coffee was cold lol
One was off the scale.
It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it
Yes, done it a few times - two weren’t good, one was beyond amazing, others were amazing.
So, in general, it has worked out well."
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"We were chatting to a couple for weeks arranged a social but as we were new completely forgot to ask for face pics but ended up having a great night out with them "
I know it's a bit of a gamble but I'm getting more ever increasingly convinced those meets you described become the best. Even if it's just friendship |
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If it as only going to be a social and that was understood, then maybe.
Generally I'm wary of people who don't want to send a face pic though and it might be quite cringe if you actually met someone you knew in real life. |
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By *ampire69Man 13 weeks ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
part of the fun is the surprise at the end, its not allm about just looks !
loks cant convey personality sexuality and not even chemisry fully
yes i have done blind meets with a very high rate of sucess so yes go for it |
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I've had lots of social meets where I knew beforehand that it would never go beyond that social so how they looked was irrelevant.
I only meet after chatting for weeks or even months so in many cases we didn't exchange pics and just said what type of car we were driving. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Personally, I wouldn't. It creates a situation where either I could be not attracted to them or them not attracted to me and it's a conversation that could have been avoided. They can have the best personality in the world but physical attraction is important and I wouldn't waste my own or their time by risking it. |
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"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.
Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?
It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it "
Yes because personality is the key for me, dont like miserable people |
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By *ampire69Man 9 weeks ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
yes i have done blind meets and i have to say i find them very very exciting, i dont show pictures for a very simple reason WORK i cant risk being recognised due to my job simple as that and i know many others also have the same reason. Better to meet a person have a drink or a coffee see if there is a spark, i always invite other person to select a public place of choice by them. i have been lucky had several meets and only one fail and that was mutual choice.
so yes for me go for it it works a picture does not reflect a personality or better than a face to face chat |
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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
nope and its nothing to do with being ''ballsey''and more to do with im not going to waste my time ..
if 99% of men do nothing for me on fab then the chances a blind meet is not going to work is also 99%..
swinging is select and reject its simple find someone you are sexually attracted to and have fun not spend a few hours with someone who is a turn of nope my time is my time and i wont waste it  |
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"Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex. "
Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex. [/quote
I like idea of a meet to just see if intimacy is a likely. I can’t imagine expecting it. Not for either party. Desire is sexy. |
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I would.
Happy to go on a social date with any of the ladies I've sent messages or or had conversation with. You can suss out attraction in the flesh 100 times better than with days and weeks of messaging and pictures. |
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