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Favourite "type" of club
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By *lowhands7 OP Man 7 weeks ago
South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent |
There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why? |
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By *bi HaiveMan 7 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Dress up, rather than dress down.
Not everyone is comfortable stripping as soon as they're in so not always the most inviting environment for newbies.
Plus there can be a tendency for some men to assume that because women are in a towel/lingerie or naked, that it means they can get 'handsy'. In all my years of clubbing I've seen far less incidents of unwanted touching in clubs where people are clothed.
Non dress down clubs don't mean people don't strip. It just creates a more balanced environment in terms of social vs play settings in my mind, and gives people a chance to talk, drink and get to know someone before contemplating getting naked with them. |
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Having been to both I kinda like the dress down version.
I hate having to undress, take off shoes nd belts and where do I hang this up in the play room or leave it on a sticky floor. Nope not for me.
I like the idea of walking around in towels or lingerie and the sneaky peaks of what may be "on the menu" if we link up |
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By *bi HaiveMan 7 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Having been to both I kinda like the dress down version.
I hate having to undress, take off shoes nd belts and where do I hang this up in the play room or leave it on a sticky floor. Nope not for me.
I like the idea of walking around in towels or lingerie and the sneaky peaks of what may be "on the menu" if we link up"
Dry clubs have locker rooms, just like wet clubs. 😉 |
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Kink.
But I prefer dress up clubs with a dress down in play areas policy.
I want time to be dressed and settle into the atmosphere before stripping.
I don't want fully clothed people in play areas where I'm next to naked. |
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Personally I hate clubs that have a big emphasis on dressing up, I did that when I was a child.
Other than that, it's more the type of event rather than the type of club that attracts us.
Couples and single ladies nights are always our preference.
Mr. |
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"Kink.
But I prefer dress up clubs with a dress down in play areas policy.
I want time to be dressed and settle into the atmosphere before stripping.
I don't want fully clothed people in play areas where I'm next to naked."
This- exactly same for us... |
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I like both, so the arrangement at VA and Liberty Elite. Arrive dressed up - daring as you like and then later on dressed down towels, lingerie, nakedness…
I’m fine with dress down immediately though- Chameleons for example.
I don’t like clothes-on clubs where it’s strip off temporarily to play and then clothes back on. |
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"There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why?"
Dress down clubs are good for experienced swingers because everyone has to dress down but dress up clubs are good for newbies
We prefer dress down   |
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"Definitely dress down for me. The dress up aspect is stressful for me, I go to a club to relax not to stand around feeling uncomfortable, so I like the no pressure spa feel. "
I don’t think I’ve ever seen you with clothes on, and I think that’s marvellous |
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Ones I can get fucked in. Me in lingery, men in next to nothing. Pants, towels or naked. It's such a faff, and breaks flow of play, of they have to undress. Plus the ones who just unzip - just no. The zip, belt and trouser button just hurt. If I've gone to the effort, at least pull your trousers down. |
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On balance dress down. It's a pain getting dressed and then undressed to play. Even in dress down eg Chams the ladies have so much choice; for men less so unless you're creative.
But with dress up again it can get a bit uncomfortable if you're relatively dressed down and everyone else is going around pretty much fully clothed. With dress down everyone is on the same level.
Also whilst I'm at find a few dress up clubs don't bother enforce a dress code so ripped jeans, dirty trainers etc are acceptable. |
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Dress down.
We’ve been to a few dress up places and always feel uncomfortable. It’s like you’re trying to talk to strangers in a pub which neither of us are very good at.
Having your kit off is a good leveller  |
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"Dress down.
We’ve been to a few dress up places and always feel uncomfortable. It’s like you’re trying to talk to strangers in a pub which neither of us are very good at.
I'll go with that, and if in hot tub all the better
Having your kit off is a good leveller "
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"There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why?"
Personally I dislike dress down clubs … I make the effort to look sexy and don’t want to walk around in a towel lol |
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We've only beem to Cupid's which is dress down and we do love it but want to check out some other clubs.
Can anyone recommend some dress up clubs in the North? Or anywhere for that matter, we have some time to get away for a few days soon. |
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen you with clothes on, and I think that’s marvellous "
Hahaha! A few weeks ago I had just arrived at Chams and there was a little traffic at the bottom of the stairs so I was waiting to go up, still dressed, a guy I don't know did a comedy style double-take and blurted "oh my god it's you! I didn't recognise you with clothes on!" 😆 |
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. So we love swinging clubs with a nightclub vibe 😊
