lol that doesn’t surprise me, I must admit I’ve done the same in the past, it’s demotivating sending 50 different personalised messages and not getting a reply to any.
Even worse when you put so much effort into a conversation then they find someone better, this site isn’t that enjoyable for guys a lot of the time
We don't automatically discard cut'n'paste messages, we usually at least look at the profile but using the wrong name, and only addressing the female at that, is an instant delete.