We're not overly keen on the social side a little chat is fine but properly getting to know eachother just isn't for us
Are any couples out there the same ?purely interested in meeting having fun and that's it, maybe sharing filth between us |
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In all truth, it genuinely depends who we're chatting to and what the vibe is like.
If we really are getting on like a house on fire, maybe taking chatting onto other apps, and it seems that there's "no social needed" per se before meeting up to fuck then maybe we wouldn't.
But mostly a meeting for a drink/coffee etc prior to sex, where it's not expected or that's the pure reason your're meeting, is what we prefer.
Neither of us have ever been "one night standers" in our younger days so the thought of meeting someone and fucking them minutes later without getting to know them first to some degree is a little alien. |
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It's not for me, I need to social, I can't just look at someone and want to fuck them, my brain isn't built that way.
Attraction for me comes with personality physical alone does nothing for me.
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"We're not overly keen on the social side a little chat is fine but properly getting to know eachother just isn't for us
Are any couples out there the same ?purely interested in meeting having fun and that's it, maybe sharing filth between us "
Most couples are probably like this. You can generally tell within a few minutes of chatting to someone if you'd like to play. We don't know that much about people we've played with and vice versa, nor is there a need to know that much. |
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"It's not for me, I need to social, I can't just look at someone and want to fuck them, my brain isn't built that way.
Attraction for me comes with personality physical alone does nothing for me.
Mrs "
That's fine and we completely respect some people prefer that but our intent is for this to be for the people who don't want a social to make themselves known |
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"We're not overly keen on the social side a little chat is fine but properly getting to know eachother just isn't for us
Are any couples out there the same ?purely interested in meeting having fun and that's it, maybe sharing filth between us "
Yeah I feel the same. |
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It’s the catch 22, some like a little chat so they feel comfortable your not an axe murder, others just want to get down straight to it, I get both sides, if your sharing your wife/partner do you want a lunatic that’s going to take you hostage at the end, but on the other hand some people like that in easy not knowing, it’s that excitement they seek. |
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"Need a social first.
I need to like people at people first and foremost to have the confidence and impetus to want to play with them."
I think the need for a social connection is the norm on Fabs.
That said, I've been invited to join a couple in a hotel with no chat, so talking as the wife is tied to the bed already and wanting the pleasure.
I much prefer the connection, but, its all about understanding others needs and going with the flow |
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When I meet with a partner with another couple I already have the connection and security which is often what I get from a social when I’m meeting solo.
It’s just meeting for the spark for me so perfect is social with an opportunity to move on
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