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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mark suggested swinging to me (-after 13 years he finally found the right moment to bring it up!)
I was wondering if it Is usually the man who suggests it or are there many ladies who bring up the subject with their partners?
Mazzy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually it was my idea, he agreed although was somewhat surprised lol. I didnt want an affair so this seemed ideal, i would recommend it. If both parties agree nobody gets hurt. Win win lol x |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love |
It has been a fantasy for both of us for years, but we decided to wait till the kids had left home, then to give swinging a go we wish kids had left soon LOL
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It as been a fantasy for so long that we cant remember who suggested first.  |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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All started for us on boxing day 5 years ago - have to say was a joint decision, we had been married 27 years at the time so was a very big step to take - we're both so glad we did though, made some great friends along the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me it was my hubby who brought the subject up, we have both been married before and were both cheated on so we just thought why not, we didnt set out to play alone but just eventually after a few months decided to try it and both loved it.
i wasnt very bothered about sex once a week and i was happy but now i want more and more lol
and ive learnt a few things along the way things now get very wet indeed lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i first started doing this i was still with my hubby, noone suggested it it was just a subject that came up one day due to someone i had been talking to, and we took it from there |
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he suggested, she agreed readily; we'd not been together long and both had been married to partners who weren't very highly sexed, we both are and both had several affairs when with our exes. with swinging, we can both enjoy plenty of lovely sex with others openly, so don't need affairs. |
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early days of our marriage we talked about three-sums ect: Martyn hadn't had hardly any experience sexually and I had had many memories of sex. he new I was bi when we got together.
things haven't been easy in our marriage but now we have sorted out the things that were wrong we talked more and it was me who suggested joining a club. I love seeing him with others and I enjoy it too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was nobody's idea really. We did a bit of talking after a few drinks, took a few mucky photos then a bit of webcam fun on ICUII, then tried a bit of dogging and here we are now |
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Well I can honestly say it was my man that suggested it. But in the right relationship....and frame of mind it works. Had loads of fun with other couples and our sex life after a meet is mind blowing!!!!!!!!!!!! Now trying to perfect my deep throat technique  |
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It was the femlae half of this couple that suggested it, but the male half was more than willing. It was suggested a few years ago but put on hold, and it is only now we are actually doing something about it, and fully intend to enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were speaking about sexual fantasies and we both said that we would like to experience sex with someone else, but not to the extent that we would cheat. We spoke about it indepth over a few weeks and decided to try swinging. We didn't know anyone who "swung" so looked into joining a club. We searched on google and found LS and Fab. That was nearly 2 years ago, so ours was truly a joint decision  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby was working in a nightclub and I (being the good wife that I am lol) waited up for him to get home at 3:30 am.
Being bored once the kids were away to bed I watched all sorts of rubbish on TV and one night found myself watching a programme called “Real Wife Swap” which was all about swingers.
I had always thought swinging was about men pushing women into something they wanted to do and not something many women wanted or enjoyed doing.
But I have to say that programme really opened my eyes. It was about a few couples who were real couples with the same problems and real life considerations as many of us have.
I sat watching the 6 episodes and by the end I was thinking they (the women) seem to be having a ball and I also learned that (in the cases of most of the couples) it was the woman who was the driving force rather than the men, and both parts of the couples seemed to be having the time of their lives.
Hubby walked into the house before the end of the last show and sat watching it with me saying he had seen the show before. We ended up talking about what we wanted from our lives and talked some more and more and more then looked into joining a site.
Never looked back since.
So I suppose it was me who brought the subject up
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went ta fix les boiler just over eight years ago
(Until then i was a single swinger)
Dont know really how the subject came up 
But she asked if she could come to chams with me
The rest is history lol xx |
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