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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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Who has ever paid for sex? Genuinely curious on this. Single or in a relationship perspectives welcome. I never have but often been tempted especially on stag dos etc. known plenty of mates who have in similar situations but a big part for me is the fear of doing so/wondering if it would just be sterile/unnatural fun? |
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Went to Amsterdam years ago with ex bf and he paid for one of the red light girls and I just played pokmon go and fed swans while he was at it.
I don't gwt the stigma that paying for sex is shady. I wasn't jealous nor feeling I didn't match up.
Not everyone can get sex and not everyone wants a regular job. I'm very pro sex workers. |
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"Who has ever paid for sex? Genuinely curious on this. Single or in a relationship perspectives welcome. I never have but often been tempted especially on stag dos etc. known plenty of mates who have in similar situations but a big part for me is the fear of doing so/wondering if it would just be sterile/unnatural fun?"
I get off on being desired, so paying for it would leave me dissatisfied. But if someone wanted me enough to offer me money, well, that might be very horny, in principle. |
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"Being paid, expensive hotel room, wealthy businessman scenario! "
Quite a common fantasy. I was seeing someone a while back and we did it. Just bear in mind how dangerous it is for the guy (partner) if caught! |
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By *equila89Man 17 weeks ago
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Not for me. I like the feeling of connection, conversation afterwards. The other person being into me. Getting a message later on the night hearing they had a good time too. All that stuff. Sex as a purely mechanical act doesn’t really do it for me. |
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I have. I'd never been with a black lady before (although I have since had a black gf), also; thought I would try a 'pro' blowjob giver who promised the best bj in town...... well it was worth a try....   |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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I tried it once. The advert was a lovely slim blonde about 30 years old. When I got there an overweight woman in a dressing gown in her late 50s opened the door. I said "I'm here to see Tina", she said "I'm Tina". I decided to give it a go anyway, but when she opened up the dressing gown her thighs and belly had some horrible red scaly skin condition which looked gross, so I just gave her the £30 out of pity and fucked off home. |
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Yes I did, back in the 1990’s, during a period of being single.
Yes, it was in Amsterdam.
I’m glad I tried it, it’s a tick off the bucket list.
But, I wouldn’t try it again…. Too transactional and no passion. |
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Had regular pay for play for quite a while, became good buddies and fab sex. Also seen masseuse who made me come like no other. Feel it's not acceptable on here although know some members do also offer that service too, I've no problem with that |
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"I don't gwt the stigma that paying for sex is shady. I wasn't jealous nor feeling I didn't match up.
Not everyone can get sex and not everyone wants a regular job. I'm very pro sex workers."
With you on this one but there are levels to it. The obvious drug addicts that hang around the streets in certain areas should perhaps be avoided.
Not judging them for their situation but struggle to see the appeal in those particular sex workers.
Once knew a fella who had a thing specifically for that type though. Different strokes for different fokks I suppose...
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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I have a couple of times when younger and based in Germany, they have bars there where your just in dressing gowns and what ever takes your fancy you just take them to a room. |
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"I have a couple of times when younger and based in Germany, they have bars there where your just in dressing gowns and what ever takes your fancy you just take them to a room."
Like wetherspoons in the bigg market? |
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"Anyone that has attended a club, GG event, gangbang etc where an entry fee is required has in a way paid to have sex. I know some events charge £100 for example.
Is this not paying for it ? "
No, of course not lol. The problem there is thinking they are all the same thing.
A club is a club. You pay entry to the club to use the facilities. There zero guarantee you're getting any. I go to my local club and half the time I just go for social reasons and the other half there is no guarantee I'm getting any.
And that is going with or without my wife. By your logic, if I go with my wife and only mess around with my wife I'm paying for it?
No...I'm paying to use the facilities.
I'm not giving money directly to any woman for guaranteed fun in that situation. And that is the distinction.
If its an organised event, again depends on what the event is. If ots a gangbang then yeah, I'd agree if you are participating but that aint my bag.
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I can understand the appeal if it allows you to sleep with someone who has desirable characteristics you might not be able to attain naturally without it being a business transaction, but the fact it is a business transaction would negate any of the she’s a 10/10 on looks for me. |
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I have never even been close to paying for sex.
I totally understand and respect that there is a need for this for both the people that provide the service and the people that use it. I have also never neen been to a strip club, i just dont see the point.
However with that said I am the type of person that needs to have some sort of rapport with the person, I believe it makes the physical element better, plus I want to know the person is interacting with me in that way because they want to not because of the cash |
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Since we both liked 3 somes years ago we set up a profile on a popular adult contact site ... yes the purple one.
We had 17 paid threesomes some involved bi stuff which I didn't mind at all.
We only stopped when suzy decided she didn't care for the fact she didn't fancy a majority of the men ... since you cannot pick and choose so easily like swinging .. so we went back to that.
That said the £2300 we made funded a very nice Mediterranean cruise  |
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"Went to Amsterdam years ago with ex bf and he paid for one of the red light girls and I just played pokmon go and fed swans while he was at it."
Ohhhh brings a whole new meaning to 'pokestops' 😉😝 |
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"Since we both liked 3 somes years ago we set up a profile on a popular adult contact site ... yes the purple one.
We had 17 paid threesomes some involved bi stuff which I didn't mind at all.
We only stopped when suzy decided she didn't care for the fact she didn't fancy a majority of the men ... since you cannot pick and choose so easily like swinging .. so we went back to that.
That said the £2300 we made funded a very nice Mediterranean cruise "
Welll done |
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