"Has anyone constantly put off telling his wife he is bisexual? When you finally did it, what did they say and how did they react?
My partner was completely fine with it, she's bi too though."
Now that would be perfect for me. Unfortunately it's not the case with her  |
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Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.
I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.  |
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"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.
I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad. "
I have told a couple of ex girl friends that I was bi. One freaked out, but then apologised and said it was fine. The other thanked me for my honesty.
I suppose it depends on your partner - if they are in the scene hope that they would be more open about sexuality.
I also agree with the comment above - sexuality can and does change as we age and change. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 14 weeks ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.
I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad. "
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Would agree with Steph about change over time,
curiosity has come to me later in life too 
It's not an issue for us personally but as Steph says be sure you are
prepared for what follows if you are thinking of doing it Op,
it may shatter her world and need lots of reassurance and support.
On the other hand, it may come as no great surprise to her lol  |
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By *SCouple81Couple 14 weeks ago
Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders |
It happened naturally for us. We talked about it and she is very supportive. It lead to amazing meets and playing with guys. Communication is the most important part and we can talk about everything. |
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"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"
I'm just like that too. Don't fancy men but the sex aspect of it turns me on. |
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"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"
Sound like you've got the perfect relationship.Wish my wife thought bi guys were sexy. |
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"Having a bi husband is the actual best. Getting to share cock takes any niggle of selfishness out of me being a lil slut lol "
Both being by sounds like the perfect marriage lol. Not jealous at all lol. |
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"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"
Same I’m not gay, I don’t fancy one at all but turned on playing a cock sometimes and love the kinkyness of it! |
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By *ya123Couple 14 weeks ago
Atherstone |
I’m bi and naturally dom in our relationship, my partner knows I have a past of having fun but not the full extent (always fun to surprise her). I didn’t tell her as I was unsure how to broach the topic but when we set up lifestyle profiles I listed myself as bi so she knew then, plus it features in our chats with other couples and she hasn’t objected to the thought of me and the other guy having some fun.
Incidentally happy to chat and see if we get along with anyone who sees this haha |
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"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.
I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.
I have told a couple of ex girl friends that I was bi. One freaked out, but then apologised and said it was fine. The other thanked me for my honesty.
I suppose it depends on your partner - if they are in the scene hope that they would be more open about sexuality.
I also agree with the comment above - sexuality can and does change as we age and change. "
I should add that I am sure another suspected when she went through my computer and found the gay porn.
Another, after I told her, said that she always suspected that I wasn't completely straight. Good intuition. |
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"I’m bi and naturally dom in our relationship, my partner knows I have a past of having fun but not the full extent (always fun to surprise her). I didn’t tell her as I was unsure how to broach the topic but when we set up lifestyle profiles I listed myself as bi so she knew then, plus it features in our chats with other couples and she hasn’t objected to the thought of me and the other guy having some fun.
Incidentally happy to chat and see if we get along with anyone who sees this haha "
Would be happy to chat! |
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"My hubby told me he was bi and cross dresser 2 yrs ago after being married 36 yrs it was a shock at first and took me a while to come to terms with it .
But all good now"
Did he tell you before or after you guys started swinging? |
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There's no harm in being honest with your wife .tell her for years how you wanted to tell her but couldn't find the right words she might just surprise you and say she had a idea you were bi and everything will workout just fine |
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I knew wife was already bi and thats always fun but she asked if i would try wanking a guy for her and if in the mood suck him and she got excited when I said yes i would... Now we wait for the right couple to have bi fun with ... one day perhaps...one day |
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